Another installment of giving better answers to the questions asked at Debi Pearl’s site message board for the book ‘Preparing To Be A Help Meet’. Many young ladies ask questions on all sorts of different subjects brought up by the book. There was just one big problem, many of the answers stray into either the outright bad and emotionally unhealthy to dangerous. Yes, typical Debi Pearl borderline abusive. Here’s what we’re going to be doing here at NLQ. Every week, once or twice a week, I’ll be posting up one of the questions from the message board and ask you, our readers, to answer that poor soul’s question in a way that is logical, rational and the best possible solution, in other words 180 degree turn from Nancy and friends always all spelling and grammar in the posting is unchanged from the original author.
Topic: Holding Hands
I am setting guidelines for my courting relationship and I was wondering what y’all’s opinions are about holding hands before youre married… Could you give me a biblical reason on why it is either right or wrong?? I would like to hold hands with my boyfriend and be able to just hold hands and save all other physical contact for when we are married. Is it possible to do that or should we refrain from holding hands all together??
The lone answer given is wordy and doesn’t really address if holding hands is right or wrong in courtship. What would a better answer be?If this is your first time visiting NLQ please read our Welcome page and our Comment Policy!