Another installment of giving better answers to the questions asked at Debi Pearl’s site message board for the book ‘Preparing To Be A Help Meet’. Many young ladies ask questions on all sorts of different subjects brought up by the book. There was just one big problem, many of the answers stray into either the outright bad and emotionally unhealthy to dangerous. Yes, typical Debi Pearl borderline abusive. Here’s what we’re going to be doing here at NLQ. Every week, once or twice a week, I’ll be posting up one of the questions from the message board and ask you, our readers, to answer that poor soul’s question in a way that is logical, rational and the best possible solution, in other words 180 degree turn from Nancy and friends answers. As always spelling and grammar are as on the original posting.
Okay, on to today’s question:
Topic: What type of girl am I?
I’ve read the book and I’m curious; I don’t know what type of girl I am.
Is there a quiz or something like that.
It’d be interesting to know that.
Some things about me: I’m the oldest of four.
I’m going to take leadership if nobody does, but it’s not something I truly enjoy. I’m a curious person. I love to work with my hands, and artistic work. Love translating, writting and reading; also photography. I like to encourage people but is hard for me to start conversations. I’m not afraid of spiders, or anything like that; I’m not afraid of the dark, I’m not afraid of being along, I’m not afraid of getting dirty. I feel like dying everytime I fail or do not know what to do, but the Lord always reminds me of His love…
It’s hard for me to show my feelings… I get easily distracted. I like people with big ideas, and the whole-heartedness for the Lord.
What else… sometimes I’m unpredictable…. I’m not a funny person. I think that talking is better than joking… I’m 24, single, I want to be a missionary… Don’t like sports… I have only a few close friends.
I’m a happy single girl, happily working, happily serving, happily learnig more about my God; not worried about marriage, yet with that desire in some part of my heart (and it’s growing).What do you think? I know it may be a silly question, but I want to know
Everyone’s advice is that she is a ‘dreamer/visionary’ type. What do you think the best advice is for this young lady?