Answering “Preparing To Be A Help Meet” – Does God Have One Perfect Person Just For Me?

Answering “Preparing To Be A Help Meet” – Does God Have One Perfect Person Just For Me? June 24, 2015

AnsweringAnother installment of giving better answers to the questions asked at Debi Pearl’s site message board for the book ‘Preparing To Be A Help Meet’. Many young ladies ask questions on all sorts of different subjects brought up by the book. There was just one big problem, many of the answers stray into either the outright bad and emotionally unhealthy to dangerous. Yes, typical Debi Pearl borderline abusive. Here’s what we’re going to be doing here at NLQ. Every week, once or twice a week, I’ll be posting up one of the questions from the message board and ask you, our readers, to answer that poor soul’s question in a way that is logical, rational and the best possible solution, in other words 180 degree turn from Debi and friends answers. As always  all spelling and grammar in the posting is unchanged from the original author.

Okay, on to today’s question:

Does God have one perfect person just for me?

I just read an article in which a young woman’s pastor father told her that there is no biblical basis for the idea that God has one special person prepared to be your future spouse. I’ve always believed that this was true. Does anyone have any insight into this?

After last week’s awful convoluted question involving giving away pieces of your heart, possible sexual sin, stringing someone along because Bible and possible stalking this is a simple one. Too bad no one bothered to answer. What would you tell this young woman?

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