by Biblical Gender Roles from his blog Biblical Gender Roles – Can a Christian husband deny his wife equal access to his income?
Editor’s note: According to this guy the pastor is the judge, jury and almost executioner in all matters involving marital disputes. This isn’t very fair to either spouse or even the pastor. Most pastors have better things to do than verbally spank people with the Bible for behaving badly. Why does a woman need the pastor’s permission to leave someone that is clearly participating in economic abuse against her?
What if the husband refuses to work or improperly spends money?
A wife cannot discipline her husband because she is not his authority. If he is doing something wrong, like not providing for her or their family such as in the case of a lazy husband who sits at home all day, then she can go to his authority in the Church(the Pastor) and have the Pastor deal with her husband’s sin.
This could also apply to a husband who has a gambling problem or a drug addiction and leaves his family with no food, clothing or shelter. In this case a wife does have recourse, because even though she is under his authority, her husband is sinning against her and violating the rights of her and her family to be properly provided for and she can take action by going to those who are in authority over her husband.
In a worst case scenario if a husband refuses to provide for his wife and children after being confronted by his authorities and she has consulted with her Pastor and he agrees, she could divorce him for breach of the marriage covenant which includes his responsibility to provide for her if he is physically able to work.
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