Answering “Preparing To Be A Help Meet” – Totally Confused

Answering “Preparing To Be A Help Meet” – Totally Confused July 12, 2015

AnsweringAnother installment of giving better answers to the questions asked at Debi Pearl’s site message board for the book ‘Preparing To Be A Help Meet’. Many young ladies ask questions on all sorts of different subjects brought up by the book. There was just one big problem, many of the answers stray into either the outright bad and emotionally unhealthy to dangerous. Yes, typical Debi Pearl borderline abusive. Here’s what we’re going to be doing here at NLQ. Every week, once or twice a week, I’ll be posting up one of the questions from the message board and ask you, our readers, to answer that poor soul’s question in a way that is logical, rational and the best possible solution, in other words 180 degree turn from Debi and friends answers. As always  all spelling and grammar in the posting is unchanged from the original author.

Okay, on to today’s question

Totally Confused

so, there’s this guy that I really like, and I feel like he might be the one. ive really been praying about and for him. some of my friends who know him say he really likes me back. they also think I should tell him that I like him….. im just not sure…… I mean I don’t want to be that girl who thought she found the right one but she never told him and thought he should make the first move. and made it impossible for him to see how she felt about him, so now she’s 30ish and STILL single! but then again I don’t want to be a ” grabby girl” and scare him off……. any thoughts?

No one answered this girl. What advice do you have for her?

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