Quoting Quiverfull: Part 20 – Homeschoolers Embracing The World?

Quoting Quiverfull: Part 20 – Homeschoolers Embracing The World? July 9, 2015

quotingquiverfullby Michael Pearl of No Greater Joy – Jumping Ship Part 4

Editor’s note: While the importance of play is well-established in almost all child development advice it’s almost a shocker to see Pearl advocating it too considering some of the things he’s said in his book “To Train Up A Child” More cognitive dissonance mixed with hypocrisy. The scary thing about this series is not only does he completely contradict many things he’s said, it’s that some of his advice is actually reasonable and could lure any newcomers to his parenting guides into thinking he always has good advice. Lured in until it’s too late.

Plus, it’s not like he’s really talking about providing entertainment to children, it’s more he’s approving of play time. I see no calls to play mini-golf or taking the children to the park or the movies. Just simply wholesome play everyone needs to stay mentally healthy, even adults need it.

If you want to almost guarantee that your children will not jump ship (other factors being equal), provide a community life that holds promise of suitable future mates.

Provide entertainment

“All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy,” so says the popular children’s rhyme. “No play” will also make Jack very dissatisfied with the life ship he is on, and when he gets old enough, he will observe the gaiety of others and begin to think about jumping ship for one that is more fun. If you are going to keep your children from longingly looking at other passing vessels, you must meet their need for diversion and entertainment. It is true that if left to themselves, children will overdose on entertainment, and, like Pinocchio, they will come to ruin on Pleasure Island. Yet, even with that danger in mind, the fact remains that children, just like adults, have both a legitimate and physical need to indulge in playful fun.

Mature, well-adjusted adults live to produce, and recreational play is clearly secondary, whereas small children live to play (“…when I was a child I thought as a child…”). Children would never work if not constrained and trained to do so. During their first twenty years, they evolve from full-time life of play to full- time working. There is also a rapid transition in their forms of play. In a period of fifteen years, they will go from tasting everything on the floor to riding motor cycles in competitions, or competing in international chess games. It becomes very difficult for parents to keep up with their children’s changing interests. I now clearly understand why God chose to give babies to young people, and not to us old folks. It takes a lot of energy to meet their ever-changing and increasing needs.

The key to providing proper and adequate entertainment is that you must thoroughly enjoy seeing them immersed in good healthy fun. Children have always loved pushing or riding something. They love the thrill of simple things, like sliding down a steep, grassy hill on a piece of cardboard, or sledding on snow and skating on ice. Kids love wheels, even at the earliest age, and will continue to do so until eventually they are begging to take “your wheels” out for a joyride. I just love putting one-year-olds on plastic riding toys and teaching them to push themselves along with their feet. They soon graduate to a tricycle and then on to a bicycle. Can you remember their thrill when they first rode without training wheels, and how exhilarated they were when they mastered roller skates, skateboards, and skies–the faster the better?

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QUOTING QUIVERFULL is a regular feature of NLQ – we present the actual words of noted Quiverfull leaders, cultural enforcers and those that seek to keep women submitted to men and ask our readers: What do you think? Agree? Disagree? This is the place to state your opinion. Please, let’s keep it respectful – but at the same time, we encourage readers to examine the ideas of Quiverfull and Spiritual Abuse honestly and thoughtfully.

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  • Nea

    I am going to wonder all morning about how Mikey both wants to isolate children from any contact with The Unapproved (even distant family members) and then talks about giving the kids forms of transportation that allow them to go where they please.

    Also, how does his sudden discovery that children like to play games that aren’t whipped into them (I’m looking at you, Debi) match up with his recurring insistence that kids consider helping adults as their play from the time they’re in diapers?

    Again, Mike can’t keep a straight thought in his head and assumes we have no memory.

  • Astrin Ymris

    Does Michael get that ‘Pinocchio’ is one writer’s opinion about human nature, delivered in a morality tale, rather than fact?

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Carlo_Collodi