Answering “Preparing To Be A Help Meet” – What To Do If Your Husband Acts Like A Child

Answering “Preparing To Be A Help Meet” – What To Do If Your Husband Acts Like A Child August 12, 2015

AnsweringAnother installment of giving better answers to the questions asked at Debi Pearl’s site message board for the book ‘Preparing To Be A Help Meet’. Many young ladies ask questions on all sorts of different subjects brought up by the book. There was just one big problem, many of the answers stray into either the outright bad and emotionally unhealthy to dangerous. Yes, typical Debi Pearl borderline abusive. Here’s what we’re going to be doing here at NLQ. Every week, once or twice a week, I’ll be posting up one of the questions from the message board and ask you, our readers, to answer that poor soul’s question in a way that is logical, rational and the best possible solution, in other words 180 degree turn from Debi and friends answers. As always  all spelling and grammar in the posting is unchanged from the original author.

Okay, on to today’s question:

What to do if your husband acts like a child

Hi, I have a husband who prefers to play his video games and computer games, and does not like spending time or talking to me. What should I do? I am a christian woman , I’ve tried to be the best help meet for him , I’m lost at what to do . I’m hoping you can give me some insight. Thank you

The answers she was given is that video games are an awful demonic thing for your husband to do but you should work on yourself, read Debi’s books and let go of any bitterness. Again, they somehow managed to blame the letter writer for her own problems. What’s a better answer?

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