by Biblical Gender Roles from Biblical Gender Roles.com – Stories of Sexual Denial in Marriage Episode 4
Editor’s note: I think I’m going to have to start calling this guy One-Note Wally because he’s fixated on exactly one subject: forcing women to have sex with their spouses no matter what. Today’s posting is him answering a complaining letter from a guy in his 70s who is upset his wife (in her 60s) doesn’t wish to have sex with him. Here is Wally the Weenie’s answer.
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God determines what is selfish and what is not selfish. God says it is not NOT selfish for a man or woman to desire sex with their spouses. On the other hand, God says it is selfish for a spouse to willfully deny sex to their spouse.
If MTM does not feel like going to his job – can he can just say “I have no desire, I don’t feel like it”. Of course not. Does a mother or father “feel like” or “desire” to get up with their sick child in the middle night? No. But we do these things because it is our obligation, our duty to do so.
“I am not, nor have I ever been romantically in love you” doesn’t cut it either.
This Christian wife needs to put her “big girl pants on” and start acting like an adult and a Christian. It does not matter if she married him for the wrong reasons, or never felt romantic love toward him. She made a commitment in marriage, and now she must fulfill the vows she made before God and man – and that includes giving her body to her husband.
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