Quoting Quiverfull: Have Sex With Your Man So He Doesn’t Cheat?

Quoting Quiverfull: Have Sex With Your Man So He Doesn’t Cheat? October 22, 2015

quotingquiverfullby Biblical Gender Roles from Biblical Gender Roles – How a Husband Can Enjoy Sex That is Grudgingly Given by His Wife

Editor’s note: Here BGR says the exact same thing that Michelle Duggar has said both recently and in the past: If a woman isn’t giving up sex, the right kind of sex, often enough for her husband he might cheat. Why is it that all the men in this type of fundamentalism are so puny and weak that they cannot control their own bodies and must be sexually catered to instead of, you know, living like most everyone else does and controlling their sexual desires?

But what if you have tried everything you can as husband but your wife refuses to do her part and look inward at things she can change in herself to help herself enjoy sex more and cultivate a desire?

What if she agrees to sex grudgingly and refuses to “fake it” but instead displays her displeasure the entire time?

First of all, your reaction of being upset at the displeasure on your wife’s face during sex that she has grudgingly agreed to is completely normal.

You need to realize that this is a physical need that you have as a man. You also need to realize that whether your wife knows it or not she needs to have sex too. Your marriage needs sex at regular intervals. If you don’t have sex with your wife at regular intervals, even sometimes when she is not in the mood but consents anyway, you will open yourself to temptation. You will find yourself becoming distant from your wife, because this is the primary way that you as man feel closeness with your wife.

QUOTING QUIVERFULL is a regular feature of NLQ – we present the actual words of noted Quiverfull leaders, cultural enforcers and those that seek to keep women submitted to men and ask our readers: What do you think? Agree? Disagree? This is the place to state your opinion. Please, let’s keep it respectful – but at the same time, we encourage readers to examine the ideas of Quiverfull and Spiritual Abuse honestly and thoughtfully.

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