by Michael Pearl from No Greater Joy Magazine – The Rod and Reproof
Editor’s note: Now Michael goes into the ‘I know what I’m doing so listen to me over the “experts”‘ without understanding he is very uneducated in the field of the psychology of children or any practical manner of ‘raising’ them. He does his usual here, denigrate those that have spent their lives on becoming educated in the field of children’s needs and pumping himself up as an ‘expert’ because a few hundred or so families were foolish enough to allow him access to their children. I don’t believe his claims that he’s observed and helped thousands of families at all.
I have probably had more experience with families and children than any ten “researchers.” They research by interviewing troubled children or by reading the publications of others. My “research” comes from thousands of homes I have visited and parents and youth I have counseled. I spent hundreds of hours over the course of 15 years ministering in a boys’ home, becoming well acquainted with the youth. I became close friends with some of them after they were grown and had children of their own. I have spent over 2,000 hours in prisons speaking with the inmates and hearing their stories.
I have found that children possess an intuitive understanding of the motives behind parental discipline. You cannot fool them. They know the difference between discipline they deserve and unjustified violence or anger. When a child has willfully broken the rules or expressed a will to defy authority, he is not shocked or offended when his parents are angry and resort to physical chastisement. The kid knows he is “getting what he deserves.” He may holler and squirm, but he walks away knowing there is a just authority to which he is subject, that there is a law of cause and effect he must observe, and that all wrongdoing meets with an unhappy end. The properly chastened child is more emotionally stable than the child left to his own devices, as studies confirm. Again, see the newly revised and expanded 21st-year edition of TTUAC.
Many Christian homeschool parents are being swept up in the Left’s propaganda. Don’t become subject to the vain imaginations of unregenerate professionals who deny the Word of God and despise Christianity. Stand on the old tried and proved principles that worked in former generations. Stand on the words of God where he clearly addressed child-rearing principles. Times are changing for the worse. Don’t change with them.
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