Quoting Quiverfull: Part 2 – Selfish Momma Dooms Children

Quoting Quiverfull: Part 2 – Selfish Momma Dooms Children December 11, 2015

quotingquiverfullby Michael Pearl from No Greater Joy – Broken Circles

Editor’s note: Now Michael goes for the super-toxic, by blaming the child for her circumstances. He claims that all this uncertainty teaches the child how to manipulate every adult in their path. He eventually always reverts to control, blaming and punishment. It’s not wrong or manipulative for children to require different supportive actions from the different people in their lives.

Children are so flexible; they can take so much and still do just fine. That’s what I’ve always heard from parents who bend their children a lot. When Grandma called she could tell something was wrong, and she told Ruth, “Get outside on the porch with the other kids, I’m coming right now.” Ruth feels better. Grandma’s house was once a place to visit and eat candy, but now it is another partial circle, a safe partial circle, warmly secure with Grandma and Papa, the same house with the same stuff in it. And Grandma is always the same. There’s no fear there, but it is not Ruth’s house, only another partial circle in her ever widening flow of circles—now that the real circle is broken.
Ruth is learning to use her circles. If she doesn’t like doing something she can just cry and say she wants Daddy. If Daddy will not let her have something, she can just beg to go stay with Mommy. If she has to go to school when she doesn’t want to, she can be sick and ask for Grandma. Ruth has learned that where there is more than one circle there is really no circle at all. No authority, no security, the only absolute is what Ruth wants. Ruth has no one to protect her from herself, from her own lusts. Grandma can be a loving grandparent protecting her from the bad guy at Daddy’s house. Daddy can make her feel happy. Mommy can love her, but the authority has been given into her tiny hands by default.

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