by Pastor Stephen Kim from NYC Pastor.com – Divorce and Remarriage
Editor’s note: We all know that the Pearls think the way to handle an abusive spouse is to stay married to him, but many other pastors believe that divorce in the case of abuse is not wrong. And then there are pastors like Pastor Kim that hold you have to stay with your abuser no matter what because Bible. Recipe for disaster and more abuse. Emphasis mine below
“Divorce and remarriage were permitted by the Law of Moses in the Old Testament (Deut 24:1-4). Hence, although divorce was not God’s original design from the beginning (i.e., “What God has joined together, let not man separate”), divorce and remarriage were permissible during the time of the Old Testament (which is why Jesus informs the Samaritan woman at the well that she indeed did have 5 husbands in the past (John 4:18)). However, by the time we get to Matthew 19, Jesus lays down His standard for all future believers: Marriage is for life and divorce (except for sexual immorality) is never permissible. (A woman may keep her distance–for the sake of safety–from an abusive husband, but she must not divorce him.) The man who remarries after his first marriage ended due to “irreconcilable differences,” is an adulterer (and the same goes for a woman).”
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