Quoting Quiverfull: Does This Man Really Exist?

Quoting Quiverfull: Does This Man Really Exist? April 5, 2016

quotingquiverfullby Colin Campbell from Meat For Men – The Qualities of Fatherhood

Editor’s note: Nancy’s husband Colin is now writing down the qualities a father  should have, which happen to be the exact same qualities listed in the Bible for leaders. Do guys like this really exist in complementarianism communities?

The following are the qualities of a man who would lead the church of God. However, they should also be the qualities of all men, especially husbands and fathers. Each one of us have our own little church, our family. God shows us the way to lead our families. Let’s check list our lives against God’s Word:

“He must be a man whom no one can criticize. He must be the faithful husband of one wife. He must be abstemious, wise in the art of living, with an ordered beauty in his life.

He must be hospitably inclined and he must be skilled in teaching. He must not be too fond of wine. He must be gentle and not pugnacious. He must be peaceable and money must have no attraction for him.

He must preside well over his own family, with children who give him complete obedience and perfect respect. If a man does not know how to preside over his own household, how can he look after one of God’s congregations?

He must not be a new convert, in case he should become inflated with a sense of his own importance, and so incur the same judgment that was passed on the devil for his pride.

He must have a good reputation among those who are not members of the church, for he must never incur the risk of making himself a target for abuse, and he must never pride ammunition for the slanderer” (1 Timothy 3:1-7 William Barclay translation).

QUOTING QUIVERFULL is a regular feature of NLQ – we present the actual words of noted Quiverfull leaders, cultural enforcers and those that seek to keep women submitted to men and ask our readers: What do you think? Agree? Disagree? This is the place to state your opinion. Please, let’s keep it respectful – but at the same time, we encourage readers to examine the ideas of Quiverfull and Spiritual Abuse honestly and thoughtfully.


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  • BCH

    These men must exist in the same place as unhypocritical Christians: NOWHERE.

  • SAO

    “Complete obedience” and “perfect respect” are markers for “terrified.” A great parent will have kids who do as requested, but occasionally need to have the reason explained. Anyone who has terrified his kids is not “gentle,” “peaceable,” “wise in the art of living” or “with an ordered beauty in his life.”

  • Astrin Ymris

    The Pastoral Epistles–1st and 2nd Timothy plus Titus– are believed to be forgeries by most objective biblical scholars. Yet the CPM loves to quote them a lot.

  • AnonCar

    Given this list of attributes, I can’t imagine that would qualify very many people for marriage in the CP/QF world…and yet…