Another installment of giving better answers to the questions asked at Debi Pearl’s site message board for the book ‘Preparing To Be A Help Meet’. Many young ladies ask questions on all sorts of different subjects brought up by the book. There was just one big problem, many of the answers stray into either the outright bad and emotionally unhealthy to dangerous. Yes, typical Debi Pearl borderline abusive. Here’s what we’re going to be doing here at NLQ. Every week, once or twice a week, I’ll be posting up one of the questions from the message board and ask you, our readers, to answer that poor soul’s question in a way that is logical, rational and the best possible solution, in other words 180 degree turn from Debi and friends always all spelling and grammar in the posting is unchanged from the original author.
Can someone help me clarify?
I understand the significance of understanding what type of man we need in a husband. I’m a Visionary/Servant type and feel I need the steadiness and encouragement of a Priest to balance me out.
However, as help meets, it’s not about our needs. We’re the helpers; it’s our task to MEET needs. No man wants a needy wife. Yet, I see the importance of the kind of man we individually need to truly be a team that really works.
I’m starting to get it, but I’m sure there are others who have thought this out more than I have. So?
Not about their needs? Oh sister, that type of thinking is a recipe for disaster and frustration.
Most of the answers she was given boil down to one thing by the end. Pray about it. What would you say?
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