by Ellen cross posted from her blog When Church Hurts
I haven’t posted in awhile. But the death of Elie Wiesel brought to mind this quote the spirit of which has always been at the forefront of my thoughts on my experience with spiritual abuse.
“We must always take sides. Neutrality helps the oppressor, never the victim. Silence encourages the tormentor, never the tormented.” – Elie Wiesel
I am convinced that no one spoke up when we were told that we were no longer welcome at the church. Sure, a couple of people spoke to me initially. But no one spoke up. No one took action.
And while they may think they were being “neutral” by not getting involved, the reality is that by not speaking up, by not stepping up and demanding that there be open and honest conversation about the years of abuse that I suffered, resulting in a God-honoring conclusion, people had taken a side: the side of the abusers.
That is why Elie Wiesel’s words are so true. Neutrality is not truly neutrality. Neutrality actually sides with the oppressor and encourages the tormentor. I was tormented for years and part of the guilt lies with those who knew it was happening and didn’t speak up. Guilt lies yet today with those who remained and continue to remain “neutral” – relying on “God” to “work it out.”
News flash: Do you not know, dear Christian, that YOU are a temple of the living God and that His Holy Spirit dwells in YOU? (1 Cor. 3:16) That God who dwells in you . . . may very well be the one that was/is supposed to “work it out.”
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