Answering ‘Preparing To Be A Help Meet’ – Praying

Answering ‘Preparing To Be A Help Meet’ – Praying November 16, 2016

AnsweringAnother installment of giving better answers to the questions asked at Debi Pearl’s site message board for the book ‘Preparing To Be A Help Meet’. Many young ladies ask questions on all sorts of different subjects brought up by the book. There was just one big problem, many of the answers stray into either the outright bad and emotionally unhealthy to dangerous. Yes, typical Debi Pearl borderline abusive. Here’s what we’re going to be doing here at NLQ. Every week, once or twice a week, I’ll be posting up one of the questions from the message board and ask you, our readers, to answer that poor soul’s question in a way that is logical,  rational and the best possible solution, in other words 180 degree turn from Debi and friends answers. As always all spelling and grammar in the posting is unchanged from the original author.


If someone says they are a born-again Christian but their life shows no evidence of that, should you pray for their salvation or take them at their word and just pray God shows them the wickedness of their life?

Only one answer to this girl and it’s a good one. She told the original poster not to judge this person or persons but to pray for them in general, not necessarily for salvation. This question is a good one in light of today’s Quoting Quiverfull of Lori Alexander judging the Christian walk of others.  I don’t know if there’s a better answer or something the answering person missed. What would you add to this?

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