Answering ‘Preparing To Be A Help Meet’ – Should I Tell Him?

Answering ‘Preparing To Be A Help Meet’ – Should I Tell Him? November 2, 2016

AnsweringAnother installment of giving better answers to the questions asked at Debi Pearl’s site message board for the book ‘Preparing To Be A Help Meet’. Many young ladies ask questions on all sorts of different subjects brought up by the book. There was just one big problem, many of the answers stray into either the outright bad and emotionally unhealthy to dangerous. Yes, typical Debi Pearl borderline abusive. Here’s what we’re going to be doing here at NLQ. Every week, once or twice a week, I’ll be posting up one of the questions from the message board and ask you, our readers, to answer that poor soul’s question in a way that is logical,  rational and the best possible solution, in other words 180 degree turn from Debi and friends answers. As always all spelling and grammar in the posting is unchanged from the original author.

Should I tell him?

There is a guy that has been a close friend of mine for several years and a few months ago I’ve started to develop feelings for him. I pray every night for God to take these feelings away so I don’t have to struggle with this anymore but no such luck. We’re really close and he’s a godly man in the making. He keeps asking me if there is anything on my mind cause I’ve been acting strange, but I don’t know what to say. should I tell him the truth? I just want to be myself again and keeping this bottled inside is making it hard for me to do so. I’m not trying to pursue this guy, I just want to be honest with him. Please help! Thanks for your time.

The only answers she got were asking how old she and this friend are. One of those answers said that if they were in their 20s and he had not indicated that he likes her in a serious going to the altar to marry kind of a way then she needs to break it off. What do you think?

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