Editor’s note: The conclusion Larry comes to is if you do things to please your wife you are committing the sin of idolatry. It’s interesting that in the Quiverfull sub culture anything that leads to personal happiness for a woman is labeled a sin. It’s a life marked by frustration, unhappiness and never ending drudgery while pasting on a big old fake smile. That cannot be mentally healthy.
“Happy wife-Happy life” is neither wise, nor Biblical. In many ways “Happy wife-Happy life” is a form of idolatry, it makes a man’s wife’s desires the central focus of his life, taking his focus off God. Adam, the first man, listened to his wife when she asked him to eat from tree of the knowledge of good and evil, and we know that decision did not lead to a happy life for Adam. Samson listened to Delilah and it cost him his life. Solomon was led astray by his wives into idolatry.
Even if you do something for your wife, buy something for her, or make a decision that you believe will please your wife, it will only result in a temporary period of happiness. When the next time arrives that she needs something, or some life decision needs to be made (big or small), again her happiness will hinge on whether what you have done pleases her or not.
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