Answering ‘Preparing To Be A Help Meet’ – I Am Stuck

Answering ‘Preparing To Be A Help Meet’ – I Am Stuck December 14, 2016

AnsweringAnother installment of giving better answers to the questions asked at Debi Pearl’s site message board for the book ‘Preparing To Be A Help Meet’. Many young ladies ask questions on all sorts of different subjects brought up by the book. There was just one big problem, many of the answers stray into either the outright bad and emotionally unhealthy to dangerous. Yes, typical Debi Pearl borderline abusive. Here’s what we’re going to be doing here at NLQ. Every week, once or twice a week, I’ll be posting up one of the questions from the message board and ask you, our readers, to answer that poor soul’s question in a way that is logical,  rational and the best possible solution, in other words 180 degree turn from Debi and friends answers. As always all spelling and grammar in the posting is unchanged from the original author.

I Am Stuck

I need some advice. I posted a while ago that I was concerned I was too smart for guys and that it may put them ‘off.’ I got lots of great tips, so…  thank you! I haven’t had a boyfriend so far, am 23 years old, and somehow I have this wifey/motherly nature to settle down and marry a Godly man. I am stuck. I am not sure what to feel/do/think lately and feel down at times that it will never happen.

I also realise there are things I have to sort in my life, such as better time management, staying humble & meek, organising & prioritising and one thing I have battled with by my nature is slothfulness & stubborness. I am going to go through the slothful scriptures in the Teaching Guide of PTBAHM.

Do you have any uplifting lines or instructions?

What would you advise this young lady in her search for a husband and what she needs to do to prepare?

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