I’ve realized that somewhere along the way I stopped thinking of happiness as a goal, and started thinking of it as a byproduct–something that just kind of happens when I’m too busy living well to notice. Somehow, this makes the American enshrinement of “the pursuit of happiness” puzzling. If happiness is a byproduct of a well-lived life, then you can’t pursue it except by ceasing to pursue it, you can’t gain it except by placing other goods ahead of it.... Read more