Southern Baptist Leader: Abused Women Should Not Divorce

Southern Baptist Leader: Abused Women Should Not Divorce April 30, 2018

Prominent Southern Baptist leader tells women they should never seek a divorce, not even if they’re being beaten and abused by their husband.

In an appalling display of Christian misogyny, Paige Patterson, former president of the Southern Baptist Convention, and current president of the Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary, argues that it’s “always wrong” to support a woman seeking a divorce, even if that woman is being physically abused by her husband.

In a recently released tape first reported on by the Texas Statesman, Patterson was asked what he recommends for women “who are undergoing genuine physical abuse from their husbands, and the husband says they should submit.”

Patterson replied:

It depends on the level of abuse to some degree. I have never in my ministry counseled that anybody seek a divorce, and I do think that’s always wrong counsel. There have been, however, an occasion or two when the level of the abuse was serious enough, dangerous enough, immoral enough that I have counseled temporary separation and the seeking of help. I would urge you to understand that that should happen only in the most serious of cases. . . More often, when you face abuse, it is of a less serious variety.

Later in the tape Patterson says he would give this advice to women being abused by their husbands:

you have to do what you can at home to be submissive in every way that you can and to elevate him

That’s right, Patterson’s advice to a woman being beaten and physically abused by her husband is “to be submissive” and to “elevate” her abuser.

As one might imagine, the leaked tape has set off a firestorm of criticism, including fierce criticism from some prominent conservative Christian women. For example:

However, Patterson is not backing down. In a statement released Sunday, Patterson doubled-down on his deadly advice, while claiming that he is being persecuted and misrepresented, and denying that he himself has ever abused a woman. The following is a brief excerpt from that statement:

For the record, I have never been abusive to any woman…

I have also said that I have never recommended or prescribed divorce. How could I as a minister of the Gospel? The Bible makes clear the way in which God views divorce.

I do not apologize for my stand for the family and for seeking to mend a marriage through forgiveness rather than divorce.

Bottom line: Prominent Southern Baptist leader Paige Patterson tells women being abused by their husbands that divorce is not an option, and that they should “stay and pray,” because “the Bible makes clear the way in which God views divorce.”

Southern Baptist Leader Paige Patterson: Abused Women Should Not Divorce (Image via screen grab)
Southern Baptist Leader Paige Patterson: Abused Women Should Not Divorce (Image via screen grab)
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