This made me laugh (even though the labels were clearly contrived by the photographer and not put there by the library). But at any rate, there isn't really a conflict. Reading a self-help book is already an example of helping yourself by seeking help from another. Anyone who thinks they are a completely independent individual probably needs to find a good book to help them understand that this isn't the case. It may or may not be in the “self help” section, and you may or may not need assistance in reaching it.