The Way Forward

The Way Forward October 24, 2020

(COMBO) This combination of pictures created on October 22, 2020 shows US President Donald Trump and Democratic Presidential candidate and former US Vice President Joe Biden during the final presidential debate at Belmont University in Nashville, Tennessee, on October 22, 2020. (Photos by JIM WATSON and Brendan Smialowski / AFP) (Photo by JIM WATSON,BRENDAN SMIALOWSKI/AFP via Getty Images)

This year is the first time ever that I have watched all the presidential debates including the one that didn’t happen.  They are at least somewhat all socially distanced which gives them a unique feel unlike other ones in the past.  Just like all other years, we begin the viewing by blankly staring into the screen wandering why these are the best two people in the United States of America that we could glean to represent us.  It is either an indictment on our character or our judgment.

It is true what some people say.  The debates do not really change anything.  For the most part we are biased in the way we watch both candidates.  We report on the failings of our opponent and the jabs from our hero and we pretty much continue to have the same opinion even though we frame it through a thoughtful lens.

This year has been somewhat different because of the circumstances.  The pandemic continues to gain momentum and divides people over the solution.  Movements like Black Lives Matter have gained full strength from all sides.  All these issues are emotionally charged and important to us all.  We all probably want similar things, but we cannot agree on how to get there.  It is like after a school shooting.  We assess blame and then almost immediately begin to argue over how to remedy the problem.

But something shifted after this last presidential debate and I think I know what it is.

The end of the debates signals the upcoming general election.  Already 1/6 of the U.S. population has voted.  It may be the biggest turnout ever; but even that it is mostly already set in motion.  People have generally decided who they are going to vote for, so the energy behind fighting with each other has cooled off to some extent.

What we are considering right now is how to move forward.  How do I proceed after the election regardless of who wins?   It may be a survival instinct within us that prompts us to realize there is truly little we can do to change certain things and so then eventually we must adapt.  This situation is way less than ideal, so do I run, hide or fight?  What would best serve the preservation of my species or more realistically, what will best help me survive the days, months, and years ahead?

There was a meme of the presidential debates that redrew the candidates as young children.  It is appropriate in many ways.  When I think of the afterlife, and I consider people like Hitler, I always see them as little children and often they are crying.  President Trump often mentions that people are “mean” to him.  Before we tell him, “you deserve it,” maybe we should look deep into his eyes and see the pain he obviously lives with.   Possibly, before calling Biden “sleepy Joe” or “creepy Joe” we should consider the little boy inside of him that cries at times (just like everyone else).

What I am considering is taking this a step further.  I am even starting to see hints of it on social media.  Before responding harshly to the one we disagree with, what if we considered why they are responding the way that they do?  When they don’t understand, it doesn’t do any good to call them names or embarrass them – they all have pain and fighting only drives the pain deeper.

Compassion, like Jesus demonstrated may be the most important tool in our arsenal.  Maybe Paul was right and love really does conquer all things.  Maybe the simple things like gratitude and being positive are much more powerful than we originally imagined!

When we care about our communities and countries, issues and problems seem to become increasingly urgent.   If you will, we carry some of the burden of those problems and the passion we feel collectively helps us move forward with solutions.  When we care enough, together change happens.

But realistically all change happens when individual people change.  Representatives in government are representative of us.  In a way, our pastors and spiritual leaders are the same way.  Until we decide to change, it doesn’t matter so much if we elect, hire or “call” the right person.  I will be involved politically and socially as much as I possibly can, but in the back of mind I must continually remind myself, like Jesus and Gandhi and the Buddha and many other suggested….it all starts with loving my neighbor!

Will you join me in doing what we can today to change the world?

Be who you are, Be where you are,


Support us on Patreon  *   The Desert Sanctuary Website

Karl Forehand is a former pastor, podcaster, and award-winning author. His books include Apparent Faith: What Fatherhood Taught Me About the Father’s Heart and the soon-to-be released Tea Shop. He is the creator of The Desert Sanctuary and Too Many Podcasters podcasts. He is married to his wife Laura of 32 years and has one dog named Winston. His three children are grown and are beginning to multiply!

The Tea Shop releases on September 22nd –  Pre-order now!

The Tea Shop

Browse Our Archives

TRENDING AT PATHEOS Progressive Christian
What Are Your Thoughts?leave a comment

6 responses to “The Way Forward”

  1. I disagree. Commenting in Oct 2020. Conservatives have committed gross evil. Conservative voters have elected evil people in positions of power. The death count is over 200, 000. There is still no pandemic plan or even a hint of one. I’ll be generous and say that 100,00 deaths are on every single republican voters’ head. See.. I’m not counting the over 200k deaths.

    In addition, because conservatives voted for Trump and republicans, children have been separated and abused at ICE detention camps. We have whistleblower reports about forced sterilizations and I believe 2 confirmations from Mexico. Republican voters have blood on their hands. The cries of the victims … I hear them even if the Christian god doesn’t. Even if the conservatives refuse to.

    At what point do good people stop pretending and call out the evil of conservatives? If we do not hold these conservative leaning voters accountable.. or rather, your kind does not, you are as guilty. You saw, but you did not see. You heard, but you closed your ears. As for speaking, you drowned out the cries of the victims begging for justice and mercy.

    At some point, you have to draw the line. Otherwise, you progressive christians will be dragged into supporting horrific things. I don’t believe that every Christian in Germany was pro-Auschwitz. But they’re all guilty. Every time they stayed silent, they chose their allies. You will note.. those on the left recognized the evil. They fought and they were murdered. The recognized that death was preferable to losing their souls by compromising with conservatives doing evil things.

    Conservative is to be evil. All they want is to preserve and replicate the evil of the past. MAGA means “Jim Crow”. It means “Slavery”. It means “White Supremacy”. It means “American Imperialism and all our installed brutal dictators around the world”. This is what happens when you let conservatives have power.

    Your god, if it exists and is a good and just god, will judge you “liberal christians” as harshly. You allow that filth to pollute the world when you should be sharpening your knives and braiding your whips and turning over the conservatives’ moneylenders tables. (and remember, your god cursed a fig tree. Conservatives are that fig tree. Your god will kill those evil pieces of dirty rags. No amount of “but when were you hungry, where were you poor” excuses will save you. Your god will see you as goats as well.)

    (as an atheist, I don’t believe. But if this religious nonsense works, go for it. Remember, you fools are absolutely willing to believe outsiders if you think they are sent by your god. Consider me sent as the Angel of Justice and as Jonah to warn you that the bad days are coming. Repent and do good and fight evil with all your soul and strength so that your witness is not besmirched by the devil’s children who you foolishly think are decent conservatives. No. Not a one will see heaven. Not a one will be allowed to exist. It’s lake of fire for them… and you. One does not try to understand evil. One fights evil. One defends the poor, the refugee, the weak, the broken. Every conservative is guilty of allowing the rape and abuse of peoples around the world. To be conservative is to be unjust, proud, haughty, and utterly debased.)

  2. Hello mate, I just wanted to tell you that this article was actually helpful for me. I was fortunate to take the tips you actually so kindly shared and even put it to use. Your web blog article truly aided me and i also would like to inform your dedicated audience that they really have someone that has her or his thoughts fixed. Thank you once more for the excellent posting. I’ve truly bookmarked this on my favored online bookmarking web site and i also recommend everyone else do the very same.

  3. thank you so much! I was sick on my birthday and needed that pick me up. Maybe you would like my books.

    All my stuff is at

    Thanks, Karl

  4. Good day! I know this is kinda off topic nevertheless I’d figured I’d ask. Would you be interested in exchanging links or maybe guest authoring a blog article or vice-versa? My blog goes over a lot of the same topics as yours and I believe we could greatly benefit from each other. If you’re interested feel free to shoot me an email. I look forward to hearing from you! Great blog by the way!|

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published.