Methodist minister said ‘fuck off’ when quizzed about women priests

Methodist minister said ‘fuck off’ when quizzed about women priests January 4, 2019

DISPARAGING remarks made about women priests by Rev Dr Vukile Mehana, the Methodist Chaplain-General of South Africa’s ruling African National Congress (ANC), has landed him in deep doo-doo.

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During a recorded telephone discussion about female priests robing members of the Methodist Young Men’s Guild – a mission organisation – Mehana, above, described the robing of men by females as “fondling”, referred to “big-breasted women” touching men’s chests, and told the questioner to “voetsek” – a “light-hearted” South African word for “fuck off”.

Mehana told his questioner – a church member called Raymond Sibanga – that men who had been ordained by a woman should be “recalled” in order for a man to “reaffirm” them.

I’m an African theologist. I don’t care whether you call it patriarchy, or you call it gender insensitive, or whatever rubbish you want to call it. There’s no man that has ever been fondled [ordained] by a woman. Voetsek! This should not be allowed in the church.

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His comments outraged the South African Council of Churches, whose General Secretary Bishop Malusi Mpumlwana, above, said that Mehana’s views on women in the church were:

Misplaced. For him to disparage women ministers to the extent of referencing women’s breasts, is absolutely disgusting and must be condemned unequivocally.

The Methodist Church of Southern Africa said it:

Noted with dismay the blatant disrespect and portrayal of women who are characterised in a dismissive, humiliating and degrading caricature. The objectifying of the anatomy of women and its link to culture and religion is not only unacceptable, but also equally distasteful.

The ANC Women’s League also condemned the comments made by Mehana and urged the various companies on whose boards he sits to consider the “reputational risk”  of continuing to employ him. It urged that Mehana:

Be stripped of his responsibilities within the Methodist Church pending the outcomes of the internal processes.

Mehana was due to officiate at an ANC event on January 8, but has effectively told to “voetsek”.

A contrite Mehana has apologised for his remarks, saying:

In retrospect, the comments I made were derogatory and demeaning to all women in ministry. I regret making such utterances and respectfully retract them. He apologised particularly to the Rev Nompithizelo Sibhidla, whom he mentioned in his tirade

I am deeply sorry that her good name has been sullied undeservedly.

Sibanga is also apologetic, saying:

The audio was not randomly and intentionally sent to tarnish the name of Rev Mehana nor of female ministers of our church, but it was sent responding to a question on robing of YMG members. I profusely and unconditionally apologise.

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  • Freodin

    Being fondled by big-chested women distracts these holy men from their god-given duty of fondling flat-chested boys.

  • nmgirl

    And these are the so-called Methodists, the American church is expected to kowtow to. Voetsek!

  • Cozmo the Magician

    Well, give the guy SOME credit. He did issue an actual apology. Not just a ‘sorry if any of you snowflakes got offended’ not-pology we see a bunch of here in the USA.

  • Indignorant privileged authoritarian KKKristStained asshole being being stupidly public about being Indignorant privileged authoritarian KKKristStained asshole–Chapter bazillion.

  • Sorry, I put a reply to Freodin, here, by accident. You seem like a very nice young person–I’m worse than your mom’s worst nightmare but I’m not a misogynist asshole, so there’s that!

  • Kin haz vestments, naaaaaaaaaaaow?

  • TheBookOfDavid

    Sibanga, satisfied that his question had been answered, prepared to conclude the interview, when Rev Mehana took off on a tangent, ranting about the nation’s youth, whose funny dress and hairstyles made it difficult to tell the boys from the girls. He transitioned to a long-winded lament about how Millenials disrespect their elders by continuing to stare into the screen when being summoned, before winding up the conversation with a hearty “Get offa my lawn!”