The Guy Who Never Cursed

The Guy Who Never Cursed November 1, 2021

Many years back I was talking with a flight instructor in St. George, Utah. Utah is home to many Latter-Day Saints, and St. George represents a Mecca for many within the church. My flight instructor, who was also a good friend, was a devout Mormon.

He confessed to me after one of our flights over “Dixie” that he had never cursed in his entire life. Not one, single, errant word. I was dumfounded. This feat seemed miraculous, but I also took it as trite and pointless. I remember thinking, with all the evil happening in the world, not swearing is one of the most important social ills to focus on?

Are there risks involved in not being too moral? / Image by Stefan Keller from Pixabay

Still, I was understanding. If the goal of never cursing was important to him, it was important to me.

After all, when I was Christian, keeping up with the endless rituals of my Adventist faith were important to me too. Things like being a good vegetarian, or not imbibing on alcohol or caffeine, or even refraining from drinking water until 30 minutes after eating. (If you must know, this is supposed to help with digestion.) So, yeah, to be a good Adventist I was also quite anal about performing every religious ritual my church threw at me.

“Do not be too moral. You may cheat yourself out of much life. Aim above morality. Be not simply good; be good for something.” Henry David Thoreau

This is one of those quotes that perplexes believers but makes perfect sense to freethinkers. The reason is, that just beyond the colored glass murals of the church sanctuary is where real life ensues. Church sanctuaries are more than buildings; they are cocoons of protection, which are designed to insulate and shield believers from contact with the evils—and the evil doers—of the world.

The world is a place of many wonders that are meant to be enjoyed. It contains marvels that can be relished both in the natural world, but also, in the day-to-day experiences of its human inhabitants. Yet, as we all know too well, life is also filled with disease, hunger, squalor, waste, misery, pain and other forms of human suffering.

So, if a person really wants to be “good for something,” they are going to have to get their hands and souls dirty. They are going to have to intimately connect to life in every way and on every level. They are going to have to see things they don’t want to see, hear things they don’t not want to hear, touch things that abhor them, and say things they’d rather not say.

To put it bluntly: They are going to have the drop their Pollyannish pretentiousness, and start giving a #*=! about the big problems perplexing humanity, rather than tinier issues like saying the word “#*=!”.

Are there risks involved in not being too moral?

For example, will this cause a person to become—God forbid—an atheist? More about this in Wednesday’s post . . .

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About Scott R Stahlecker
Scott Stahlecker is a former minister, a member of the Clergy Project, and writes for Thinkadelics about the joys and benefits of living as a freethinker. He is the author of the novel Blind Guides, Picking Wings Off Butterflies and How to Escape Religion Guilt Free. You can read more about the author here.

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