Discernment

Courtesy of Father Mike Sis of the Diocese of Austin, here are some tips for discerning God’s plan in your life:

Assistance: a). detachment from your own agenda (a radical trust in God), b). information about all your options c). silent prayer d). service to others e). the Eucharist in Mass and Adoration f). regular confession g). Scripture reading h). spiritual reading i). spiritual direction (a mentor relationship with an elder)

Structure: a). pray for guidance throughout the process b). gather all facts c). look at all options carefully d). consult with someone you trust e). consult the wisdom of the Church f). consult Scripture g). use your reason h). use your imagination – what advice would you give in the same situation? i). give adequate time j). make a decision, and be willing to accept responsibility k). live with your decision before you act on it – is there peace? l). act on the decision

How does a decision tend to fall?: a). consistency v. passing emotion b). real freedom in Christ v. feelings of pressure c). rooted in trust in God v. rooted in fear d). stretching you to grow v. stagnation and lukewarmness e). humble service v. status and recognition f). fruit of the Spirit v. work of the flesh g). inner wholeness v. anxiety h). joy v. moodiness i). cooperation and mutual help v. competition j). inspiration for the good v. uncharitable behavior k). giving v. keeping l). looking to serve v. seeking a blanket of security m). faithfullness v. temptation to immorality n). ability to live v. drain on personality