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Ruth: The Relationship We Are All Looking For EPISODE 77

Sometimes God feels absent. Bitter, even. Naomi gets that. But Ruth shows us that when everything collapses, the right person by your side can be sacred. This episode is about that kind of lovethe loyal, no-matter-what kindand what it teaches us about faith and friendship. patreon.com/skepticpastor

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Ancient Jewish Secret for Reading the Bible

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