The Kiddy Pool: Having It All…Or Not

“It is still anathema is this culture — where ‘having it all’ gets defined by material success and social prestige — to simply be content.”

The Kiddy Pool: Karen Klein, Jerry Sandusky, and Redemption

I don’t know what kind of redemption is possible for any of the players in these stories here and now, but I hold on to the hope that there is something more, something better, beyond the traumas of today.

The Kiddy Pool: Facebook for the Whole Family?

“Convincing kids—and their parents—to sign up the whole family for Facebook isn’t just about making the world a more open network. It’s big business.”

The Televangelist: Pretty Little Liars Unravel the Truth

“In this show, friends lie to nurture, protect, and save each other, always ultimately resulting in revelation and increased closeness.”

Me, Jessica Simpson, and The Postpartum Road to Recovery

“Why do we love to look at pregnant women but still expect new mothers to look like they haven’t spent the last nine months making a human?”

The Kiddy Pool: Are You Dad Enough?

“Let’s shift the conversations on parenthood away from polemical and prescriptive and try to keep a sense of humor…”

The Kiddy Pool: Child-Free by Choice

“Both Badinter’s book and the child-free couples she describes represent opposition to the belief that motherhood is instinctual, natural, and universally-desired.”

The Kiddy Pool: Got Preschoolers? There’s an App for that.

“[C]hildren’s education always needs to be mediated by thoughtful and invested adults; in that ideal scenario, apps can serve as an enrichment tool (like so many kinds of media), but not as a substitute for other kinds of interactions.”

The Kiddy Pool: Pregnancy, Ambivalence, and Faith

“I write about this here because I don’t know how to reconcile the joy of my daughter’s impending arrival with the deep ambivalence I feel about this pregnancy.”

The Kiddy Pool: Mind, Body, and Breast—Public Discourses on Breastfeeding

“Lactation is not a disability; it’s a choice, yet it points to larger social discomforts about women generally and mothers specifically.”