When You Find Out That Your Husband Has a PORN HABIT…

4.  Help him to have ACCOUNTABILITY.  

This step is ESSENTIAL to breaking a porn habit or addiction.  My husband and I are big fans of XXXChurch.com, which offers amazing resources and accountability software to help people recover from their porn habit and heal their relationship.  There are even a lot of resources for those who are trying to cope with their spouse’s porn habit and recovery.  You can even talk to someone on the phone who can walk you through this by enrolling in online support groups.

Whatever you do, make sure you both take measures to hold him accountable when it comes to his porn habit.  This may mean that he doesn’t have access to his smart phone or home computer for a time.  He may need to join a support group at church, or online, for those trying to recover from a porn habit.  He may even need to start seeing a Christian counselor on a regular basis as well.  Any and all of these steps will help your husband to move towards healing, and there are steps that YOU can take to help you heal from this hurt as well…