5 Ways for Busy Spouses to Find More Time for Each Other

2.  Meet for lunch at least once a month.

Time together doesn’t have to be just at home or at night.  Sometimes it takes thinking a little bit outside of the box to create space for more time together.  Meeting for lunch may not be possible with some jobs and different shifts, but the timing of the meal really doesn’t matter.  What matters is that you both choose to make it a priority to spend more time together, and a lunch or dinner break is a great opportunity.  For those who have kids, try setting up a lunch date with your spouse when your kids are in school or at a Mother’s Day Out program.  If they aren’t in school yet, ask a friend or babysitter to watch them for an hour or two.  This special time alone with your spouse will bring you closer and improve your communication, and you will start looking forward to the next lunch date!