You may want to comfort a friend or loved one who’s struggling with cancer, but you’re not sure what exactly to say. Lori Hope, author of Help Me Live: 20 Things People with Cancer Want You to Know, offers several suggestions: ▪ Say “I’d like to ask how you’re doing, but I don’t want to bring it up if you don’t want to talk about it. What would you prefer?” ▪ Ask, “How’s it going?” not “How are you feeling?” ... Read more