The dust swirled in the hot humid air as I trudged home from school. I slipped the report card next to Mom’s purse, hoping she would just sign it and give it back with cool indifference. No such luck. In our home, earning a mediocre grade was a major event, close to dental surgery or transmission work. She saw the “C” in social studies. My reasoning is that the grade was “average.” But for an hour it seemed, I was on... Read more
We divide our world into two basic groups -- “Us” and “Them.” That’s it. There’s the “Us,” which is the socio-economic group we identify based on what we think is important. Things like race and culture and gender and religion factor into the “us.” And other things like sports allegiances, dress standards, or homes also create groups we can identify with. Read more
You probably have some old injuries you are carrying around. Someone said something to you or did something to you. Maybe as a child you were told you were dumb, or you couldn’t sing, or you were ugly. Maybe a parent crushed your enthusias m or a trusted elder took advantage of you sexually. And the result is you never tug at the rope that holds you back. If you did, it would break and you would be free. Read more
His great love for pottery became a burdensome beast. Instead of pursuing his art for the love of it, he had to produce. William confessed to me that the joy he once felt from creation suddenly felt like a job, because the love was replaced with need. He grew to despise his gift. Read more
How many times have I been asked, "How are things?" My response? "Great." "Fine." "Blessed." I then I spin a tale of joy and happiness to keep everyone satisfied. It's beautiful. The beaches are open. I'm having a wonderful time. Read more
What are the things you really remember in life? What are the things that bring you the most happiness? For about a decade, I lived in a town in Jackson Hole, Wyoming. In fact, our small rented house was in what Forbes called the wealthiest ZIP code in America, until they were knocked off by a wealthier counties. In case you were wondering, we were not — affluent that is. Working simple jobs we sponged off the beauty and the order... Read more
The Islamic Republic of Iran has a number of restrictive laws. Women can go to the gym, but they must stay in their Habib. They can sit in restaurants and cafes, but they cannot smoke in public. There are more than 100 offenses that carry the death penalty. And executions are often public. Since the overthrow of the government in 1979, any live music performances on television have been banned. The restriction is because they are deemed “Too irreverent.” But... Read more
Do you find Valentine's Day cards an exercise in frustration? There are so many bad cards out there. Is it time just to start over with this fake holiday? Read more
The pursuit of happiness isn't a Christian imperative. But we act like it is – using it as an excuse to for all sorts of selfishness. Read more
He can force fumbles and cause crows to fly into receivers outstretched arms. He can flood the red zone or cause locusts to descend on the opposing team. But I think he likes a good game, and he’ll be watching on the big screen. Because He could care less about the outcome of the Super Bowl, but he’s crazy about you. Read more
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