He used that now-famous (or infamous) phrase during his homily this morning:
In his homily at Holy Mass on Monday, 17 March, Pope Francis preached on mercy. Commenting on the dayās readings from the Prophet Daniel (9:4-10) and the Gospel of Luke (6:36-38), the Pope explained that āJesusā invitation to mercy is intended to draw us into a deeper imitation of God our Father: be merciful, as your Father is mercifulā. However, he added that āit is not easy to understand this willingness to show mercy, because we are accustomed to presenting the bill to others: youāve done this, now you have to do thisā. In short, he said, āwe judge, and we fail ⦠to leave space for understanding and mercyā.
In order to be merciful, ātwo attitudes are neededā. The first is āself-knowledgeā. The Pope noted that in todayās first reading, Daniel recounts the humble prayer of the people before the God and their acknowledgement that they are sinners: āWe have sinned and done wrong, but to thee belongs righteousness, and to us shameā. Reflecting on the passage, the Pope said: āIn the presence of a repentant people, Godās justice is transformed into mercy and forgivenessā.
This challenges us, he continued, by inviting us āto make room for this same inner attitudeā. Therefore, āto become merciful, we must first acknowledge that we have done many things wrong: we are sinners!. We need to know how to say: Lord, I am ashamed of what I have done in lifeā.
The Pope continued: āeven though none of us has ever killed anyone,ā nonetheless āwe still have committed many daily sinsā. Therefore, āacknowledging that we have sinned against the Lord, and being ashamed in his presence is a grace: the grace of knowing that one is a sinner!ā. It is easy, he said, and yet āso very difficultā to say: āI am a sinner and I ashamed of it before you and I ask for your forgivenessā.
āOur Father Adam gave us an example of what oneĀ should notĀ do,ā the Pope added. For he blamed the woman for having eaten the fruit and he justified himself, saying: āI have not sinned; it is she who made me go down this road!ā. Eve then does the same thing, blaming the serpent. Yet one should acknowledge oneās sin and oneās need to for Godās forgiveness, the Pope said, and not look for excuses and āload the blame onto othersā. Perhaps āsomeone helped meā to sin, āand opened the road: but I did it!ā.
āIf we act in this way,ā he explained, āhow many good things will follow: we will truly be men!ā. Furthermore, āwith this attitude of repentance we will be more capable of being merciful, because we will feel Godās mercy for usā. In the Our Father, in fact, we do not only pray: āforgive us our trespassesā. We also pray āforgive us as we forgive those who trespass against usā.
The second attitude we need is āan openness to expanding our heartsā. The Pope noted that it is precisely āshame and repentance that expands a small, selfish heart, since they give space to God to forgive usā. What does it mean to open and expand oneās heart? First, it means acknowledging ourselves to be sinners and not looking to what others have done. And from here, the Pope said, the basic question becomes: āWho am I to judge this? Who am I to gossip about this? Who I am, who have done the same things, or worse?ā.
āThe Lord says it in the Gospel: āJudge not, and you will not be judged; condemn not and you will not be condemned; forgive and you will be forgiven. Give and it will be given to you; good measure, pressed down, shaken together, running over, will be put into your lapā. This is the āgenerosity of heartā that the Lord presents through āthe image of those going to collect grain who enlarged their aprons in order to received moreā. In fact, Pope Francis said, āyou can receive far more if you have a big heart!ā. And he added: āa big heart doesnāt get entangled in other peoples lives, it doesnāt condemn but forgives and forgetsā as āGod has forgiven and forgotten my sinsā.
He then noted that in order to be merciful we need to call upon the Lordās help, since āit is a graceā. And we also need to ārecognize our sins and be ashamed of themā and forgive and forget the offences of others. āMen and women who are merciful have big, big hearts: they always excuse others and think more of their own sins. Were someone to say to them: ābut do you see what so and so did?ā, the respond in mercy saying: ābut I have enough to be concerned over with all I have doneāā.
Pope Francis concluded: āIf all of us, all peoples, all families, all quarters had this attitude, how much peace there would be in the world, how much peace there would be in our hearts, for mercy brings us peace! Let us always remember: who am I to judge? To be ashamed of oneself and to open and expand oneās heart, may the Lord give us this grace!ā.
Perhaps more revealing, though, is the video below, which captures the moment he said That Phraseāand with a bemused look, seemed to realize heād said something that has raised eyebrows (and blood pressures) around the globe.











