Yes, God Will Let You Down

Yes, God Will Let You Down June 26, 2019

There are a handful of modern worship songs that I genuinely enjoy, but more and more I find myself having to stop singing mid-verse once in a while because I disagree with certain ideas those songs communicate.

Last Sunday we were visiting someone’s church service in Fullerton, California and they started to sing one of those songs. The part I really love in this song says, “You are good, good, ooooooh. You are good, good, oooooh” and that feels really great to sing at the top of my lungs, to be honest.

However, the very next part always makes me shake my head in disbelief: “You’re never gonna let, you’re never gonna let me down.”

Whenever I look around the room and see about a hundred people with their hands in the air, and their eyes squeezed shut and the tears streaming down their face, all singing things like “You’re never gonna let me down” I want to run up to the microphone on the stage and shout: “Yes God will let you down one day. God will let you down so hard! And then what will you do?”

Because, see, that’s reality. That’s real life.

God does let us down now and again. If it hasn’t happened to you yet, it will. Trust me. And then you’ll have to find your way forward from there.

See, whenever someone fails to live up to your expectations, they let you down. That’s what it means to let someone down, actually: Failure to live up to our expectations.

Will God fail to live up to your expectations? Oh, yes, Matilda. God will absolutely fail to live up to your expectations.

When you expect God to heal your Mom’s cancer, God will let you down.

When you expect God to restore that romantic relationship, God will let you down.

When you expect God to help you get that job you interviewed for last week, God will let you down.

When you expect God to __________, God will let you down.

This is when our faith gets tested. This is when we discover the gap between our expectations of God and the real God who created the Universe.

The Bible is chock full of examples where people expected God to “zig” but God decided to “zag” instead.

Job and Psalms are great places to start if you’re looking for examples of this sort of thing.

So, when I hear Christians belting out verses about how God will never let them down, it concerns me. What will happen in a few short weeks or months when God DOES let them down? Will they lose faith? Will they walk away from God? Will they sink into despair or depression?

Why do we set people up like this? Why do we allow complete nonsense like this to be shouted from loudspeakers and repeated over and over again for ten solid minutes?

Here’s what I want you to know: God will let you down. But it doesn’t mean God doesn’t love you. It doesn’t mean God doesn’t care. What it means is that your expectations of God weren’t aligned with reality.

Our faith walk is all about learning to hear God’s voice; learning to walk with God through the darkness and the pain; learning to trust that God is there even when we don’t feel it.

God will fail to meet your expectations. But it’s our expectations that need to change, not our faith in God who never changes.

In my own life, I’ve experienced those disappointments with God. Sometimes the feeling of betrayal was unbearable. God set me up. God ripped me off. God let me go through something horrible.

In those moments, you get to reevaluate your relationship with God. You get to come to God with your pain and your brokenness and you get to ask to be healed by the One who – at least in your perception – caused you pain.

Then you get to reflect on why you thought God was going to do this, or that and why making those assumptions is what caused your pain – not God.

What God promises is that when we go through those valleys of the shadow of death, we won’t go through those places alone. Because God is with us. God will never leave us or forsake us. God’s love for us is higher, wider, longer and deeper than we can fathom. God’s love transcends knowledge. And nothing will ever separate us from the love of God. Nothing.

Those are the promises you hold on to. That’s the expectation you carry with you. All the rest can fade away.

God is good and you are loved by God.

And the thing about love is: Love never fails.


Keith Giles was formerly a licensed and ordained minister who walked away from organized church 11 years ago, to start a home fellowship that gave away 100% of the offering to the poor in the community. Today, He and his wife live in Meridian, Idaho, awaiting their next adventure.

His newest book, “Jesus Unveiled: Forsaking Church As We Know It For Ekklesia As God Intended” released on June 9, 2019 on Amazon, and features a Foreword by author Richard Jacobson.

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  • bill wald

    God will never let us down unless we pray for special deals and favors.

  • plungingforward

    I think the idea is to have faith that we, in fact, have not been let down. God “let” Jesus die. Did he “let him down?” So when I don’t get what I want, has God “let me down?” There’s something akin to a “no true Scotsman” in this, and I realize that. (God sure seems to have let Job down.) I also understand your squeamishness over something that seems untested and perhaps even a facile (or desperate) attempt at control we simply don’t have. But the best interpretation, I suppose, is that they’re building their faith in the good times in order to persevere in the hard times.

  • swbarnes2

    The hypothesis that best matches the data is that if there is a God, it doesn’t act in a way that is distinguishable from a no God at all.

    If you are sick, your kid might draw you a card, your sister might make you soup. God won’t even do that much.

  • James Elliott

    In the end, what lets us down are misguided expectations of God or even reality. But i’m right with Giles on the distaste for worship that has focused on feelings over God. In seminary i was with a group that had to do a study on Habakkuk. Short prophetic book. One bad thing after another in which the writer determines at the very end that in spite of all that, he/she would offer God praise. We arrived at the theme: “Life sucks, but God is our refuge.” A far cry from “expecting” that God will perform for us.

  • KontraDiction

    I’m not sure it works like that. If there is a God, I don’t think he’d storm down from heaven, touch your forehead, and BOOM your sickness is gone – though that seems to be what some people would like.

    If there is a God, I wouldn’t expect to understand much of what He’s up to, really. An infinite Creator beyond space and time, the source of infinite love, and little old me expects to know the first damn thing about it? Ha.

    But I do know that get well soon cards are loving, as is making soup. If God is love, I know a bit about love, so that’s a start. Right?

  • swbarnes2

    You aren’t sure that sisters bring their brothers soup?

    You aren’t sure that God doesn’t storm down from heaven?

    I’m confident to say that doesn’t happen. What evidence do you have that causes you to conclude otherwise?

    It’s easy to see if you really believe this. Just replace the word “God” in your vocabulary with “love” from now on, and see if people around you think that what you are saying makes sense.

    Love doesn’t have a kingdom, Love doesn’t have a will. Love won’t give you your daily bread, or forgive you your trespasses. So basically the whole Lord’s prayer is meaningless. Is that a conclusion you really are ready to accept?

  • KontraDiction

    Yes, I accept that. I absolutely replace “God” with “love” – though I recognize that most people don’t. And therein lies the problem.

    But the kingdom of God does have a meaning, it’s the world that would be created if we all treated each other well. And to the extent that love is a verb, then it can be said to have a will – not like a person does, more like a call to action. These are metaphorical, not literal, but no less powerful for being so.

  • CO Fines

    In my personal use of what we call the “Lord’s Prayer”, I request, “Please lead us thru our lessons and testings, protect us from Evil.” This requires a committed effort to do my part as best I can. So far, so good.

  • swbarnes2

    Now you are just making things up. People have wills. Parts of speech do not have wills. Love is not a person who can answer prayers. So if you keep praying as if to a person who will respond, it’s because you don’t really believe what you are saying.

  • swbarnes2

    I don’t see a “special deals and favors” exception in: ” Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives; he who seeks finds; and to him who knocks, the door will be opened”. Or ” Again, I tell you truly that if two of you on the earth agree about anything you ask for, it will be done for you by My Father in heaven.” Or “Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours. ”

    Can you quote the “special deals and favors” exception?

  • KontraDiction

    That’s right, we are in agreement. It’s a metaphorical construct, not a person at all. I don’t pray expecting a response. I pray to align myself with love, and to express gratitude.

  • billwald

    Long story made short. Long time ago I asked God for a special deal in exchange for . . . . I got my special deal but didn’t promptly uphold my part of the deal. God’s reminder was intense but I followed through an all turned out well. I learned my lesson. Be careful what you pray for.