OK, since no one (except Stephen Milliken) is excited about monism, here are some theses about gay marriage: 1. Gay marriage really is the redefinition of marriage to make it gender neutral. It is not simply the granting of “equal access” to an institution whose meaning remains the same. 2. However, given the shifts that have taken place in our cultural understanding of marriage, such a redefinition makes sense. That is to say, we have privatized the concept of marriage... Read more