Let me just note that this man’s bullying rhetoric is utterly repellent and I reject it completely.
Let me also note that this guy is a nobody and I’ve never heard of him before. Dan Savage, in contrast, is a leading figure in the gay community whose bullying of kids half his age is part of a pattern that includes bullying of others he has decided are gay and need to be exposed, as well as advocacy of the rape of ideological enemies. He should be a pariah in the gay community. That he is not is the little thing that marks the priorities of the gay community leadership off from the norms of civic decency.