Our gated communities and the black bogeyman that haunts us

Our gated communities and the black bogeyman that haunts us August 14, 2014

audubon placeI decided to take a picture of the most violent thing I’ve seen so far in New Orleans. Maybe that sounds silly to you. How can a sign in front of a peaceful gated community filled with ten million dollar homes far away from the tear gas street battles taking place tonight in Ferguson, Missouri be violent? But the ideology that is articulated in this sign is the source of great violence: the idea that super-rich white people must be kept absolutely safe and segregated from the poor people of color who surround them in a chocolate city like New Orleans no matter what the cost. The sense of entitlement and paranoia in this ideology does not limit its expression to intimidating signs in front of “private streets.” It’s part of an unnamed discourse that shapes millions of white peoples’ instincts and reactions to people of color in their daily lives, including the police officer who shot Michael Brown in Ferguson, Missouri.

Racism is actually very easy to spot in the US; just look at the geography of any city. In every other country in the world, the rich people live at the city center where land is expensive and poor people live in the outskirts where land is cheap. The reason that every major US city has the opposite geography with rich people on the outskirts and poor people in the inner city is because of racism. The US phenomenon of suburbia was created by the white flight of the 1960’s and 1970’s as white families reacted to the desegregation of their neighborhoods and schools in the city. The multiculturalism that’s trickled into suburbia in recent decades has not erased the sublimated racist paranoia about “safety” at the core of suburban consciousness.

When we told people we were moving to New Orleans, one of the first things everyone asked is what we were going to do about “the schools down there.” Some of our friends have friends in the New Orleans area who live in the suburbs where the schools are “safe.” When we told people we weren’t going to live in the suburbs because we wanted to be close to Tulane’s campus where I work, we were encouraged to “budget for private schools,” which is pretty hard to do on a campus minister’s salary since my wife hasn’t found a job yet. We ended up putting our kids in a charter school (there are hardly any non-charter public schools left in New Orleans). The people we talked to usually breathed a sigh of relief when they heard that our kids are going to a charter school and left it alone after that, because charters are deemed to be “safe” since they’re not straight-up public schools.

What I haven’t told our concerned friends is that, judging from the open house and pickup line at school, our sons are in a student population that is probably 80+% black. What I don’t say aloud to anyone is that I have been nervous about how they will do, because I am still struggling with my own racism. Basically, I presume that black people cannot possibly be nerdy and socially awkward in the same way that I am and the way I presume my sons to be, so I’m scared that my sons are going to get teased and bullied. I’ve got an archetype in my head of the black man who’s manly in all the ways that I’m not: athletic, confident, smooth with women, quick and decisive with his words. And I’m dreadfully intimidated by this imaginary black man that I’ve amalgamated from the various media sources that have created him, despite the fact that I’m best friends with an actual black man who’s gay and sings opera and makes me laugh constantly and doesn’t intimidate me at all.

Many white people think that racism can only be racism if it involves intentionally hating a specific individual in their lives on account of that individual’s race. Under that very limited definition of racism, very few white people even in the height of segregation have ever been racist. White people have always had black friends, even when they were friends with their slaves. Racism more often takes the form of a secret fear of the generic black bogeyman in our heads who is probably nothing like the black people we actually know and love personally. We usually don’t recognize this bogeyman as being “black” per se. He’s just what we imagine when we think “thug” or “burglar” or “mugger.” He’s a terrifying meme that’s been created by thousands of images we’ve seen and thousands of conversations we’ve had about “inner city crime” or “gangsta rap” or “out of control teenage boys.”

Most white people aren’t in the position to do direct harm to black strangers they encounter based upon the fearful bogeyman in our heads. Usually we just move to suburban neighborhoods where the black guys wear polo shirts, drive Lexuses, and make the same corny chitchat that we do. But when you give a white man a badge and a gun and put him in a “rough” neighborhood that he isn’t from after being immersed in a police culture that’s increasingly militarized and trained to interact with the local population using counter-insurgency tactics, then he will shoot his bogeyman multiple times in a rush of adrenalin to make sure that he’s dead, regardless of how high his hands are raised in the air.

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  • GaryLyn

    Gated community…an oxymoron, at least theologically.
    I might add private street to that list as well.

    • Mike Ward

      If a man has a street, and it’s full of potholes, and he calls the city and the county and ask them to fix it, and they both say it belongs to him so he has to fix it, is it a public street or a private street.

  • Paul Koopman

    I was just thinking about this the other day. If all racism was as obvious as the white hoods of the KKK, or the rambling trolls of Stormfront, racism would be fairly easy to confront and defeat. Subtle racism is so dangerous, because it is cloaked in concern and love. It doesn’t *sound* racist to warn friends against certain areas of the city because of crime rates or poorly performing schools. We had lots of friends and family warn us of those bad areas when we announced our plans to move into North Minneapolis 3 years ago. And if we’re honest, it rests deep down in the hearts of all of us. We all have some tribalistic urges; they are ingrained into our DNA, I believe. We have to consciously work to account for those urges.

    That’s not to say all those fears are always unfounded. High crime rates are what they are. There was a man murdered after an altercation at a bus stop less than a block from our house – we could have witnessed it had we been in the front yard. It’s not common, it’s not the norm, but it’s less uncommon than, say, Edina (or Audubon Place). So some cautious conservatism (ie, common sense) is appropriate. We keep our home locked, and invest in a good home security dog. 🙂 And we try to get to know our neighbors. I don’t always do very well in that regard because I’m an introvert, but we’re slowly making some progress.

    PS – I’ve worked at the teaching hospital at Tulane dozens of times in the past 5 years. I love that city, bad smells and all. 🙂

  • Steve Heyduck

    I like the point you are making here. I think similar things whenever I drive by another gated community. Sadly, most of them don’t have anywhere near $10 million homes. It’s a thing less-than-super-rich people are doing as well.

    I am a bit concerned that, in the midst of an otherwise good piece, you assert that everyone in that gated community is not only super-rich, but also white. I don’t think that hyperbole is helpful to your argument.

    • That’s legit. It was the image that inspired the reflection but maybe it was too much of a distraction.

  • SheriffBart

    I don’t know why I read articles like this. I know whites, blacks, latinos, and asian folks who live in gated communities. To assume everyone or most people are racist is absurd. The reason people live in gated communities is lack-of-crime, and privacy.
    Since the author is not afraid of the bogeyman, why don’t you take a walk around the neighborhoods at 10pm every night and report back on how peaceful, tranquil, and safe your walk is.

  • Tyler Schlichenmeyer

    It sounds like some people in the comments here have never stepped foot in new orleans. Sheesh. Once again, people pretending like they know everything about things they know nothing about.

    • sharon peters

      pretending, black & white thinking, magical thinking; i think is trying to convince my self i have some control over compexity.

    • Anirudh Shivkumar

      New Orleans entirely I bet isn’t that bad. I have been to Baltimore though, and many times. Baltimore is pretty bad, overall, and most people fear it completely. Besides the Inner Harbor area (the tourist-y place), I have also been in East Baltimore. While the income level is significantly lower there, it isn’t AS bad as people say it is. Granted, I was there during the daytime. Mostly, these people are quite friendly, communicate in a way that isn’t clear to most but with good intentions, and with respect to antagonism, just want to be left alone. I’m not sure how it is at night, but I still would have to battle myself to enter that neighborhood then. I guess it helps I’m Indian-American and blend in better in that neighborhood than a Caucasian.

  • Timothy Weston

    I shared this in my Facebook feed and a hardcore conservative cited “property rights.”

  • Mike Ward

    Gated communities are the boogman here. If we leave our car doors unlocked at night, someone will go through our cars. If they find anything they like, they will take it. If they take something, but decide it isn’t really of value, I may find it in my neighbor’s yard. I don’t know what color the person who does this is, and I don’t care. We do what the police told us which is keep our doors locked. People who build a fence around their community and lock the gate are no different than me. They aren’t racist; they just don’t like people digging through their stuff and taking whatever they feel like.

  • Benjamin Martin

    Are all of the aspersions cast at whites applicable to blacks who live in gated communities?

  • Fidelis ad urnam

    Wow I just…..don’t even know where to begin with this nonsense. So, people who want safety, privacy and a clean neighborhood are now racists? Gimme a break! It appears you guys will go to the ends of the earth to excuse black criminality. No, there is no black boogeyman….he’s a real person, and has a name. It’s the thugs who play knockout game, polar bear hunting(get it?) and the thousands of documented cases of unprovoked attacks on whites and non- whites alike. There’s plenty of video evidence on YouTube and many other sources including the DOJ website. So in the end, all of your outright denial and pathetic attempts to paint white people who are simply exercising common sense around high crime neighborhoods as bigoted and hateful makes you look spectacularly naive. This is the internet age sir, not the days of slanted newsprint and three network news stations. We are far more informed thanks to technology and you can deny the truth only so long. Thanks to alternative media, many more people now are aware of the high criminality of many blacks and many have experienced it firsthand. Who are you trying to kid?