2016-04-19T23:28:05-05:00

Last updated on: April 19, 2016 at 11:28 pm   By

The following was shared with me by an AASECT colleague.  Feel free to share with anyone who would fit the description.  Thank you! *We are recruiting participants for our research study: Sexual Minority Adults from Religious Families: Relational Determinants and Health Outcomes.We are looking for adults (18 years and older) who identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, or have experienced same-sex attraction, were raised in religious families, and are currently or have previously attended a college/university.The purpose of this research study... Read more

2016-04-18T00:51:33-05:00

Last updated on: April 18, 2016 at 12:51 am   By

In light of all of the news stories that have been circulating – and how difficult it must be for many of our own wounded members who have been affected by the criminal travesties of sexual assault to read through the articles, relive some of their own experiences and often, see very hurtful comments (even if unintentional): I thought it might be appropriate to glean from the wisdom of one of our national treasures, Maya Angelou.  One who knew the... Read more

2016-04-18T00:55:33-05:00

Last updated on: April 18, 2016 at 12:55 am   By

I will be out in Salt Lake City, Utah this following weekend for several events.  The Mormon Mental Health Association is hosting Richard and Lawrence Siegel to present a training for therapists called Challenging the Sex Addiction Model.  The general public is also welcome to attend for a reduced fee that will not include Continuing Education credits. On Saturday, April 23rd I will be offering two workshops.  Pornography Workshop: When the Sex Addiction Model Fails You from 10am-12pm and Sexuality After... Read more

2016-05-01T23:45:24-05:00

Last updated on: May 1, 2016 at 11:45 pm   By

About 10 years ago I was attending BYU-Provo and found myself in a situation where I had accepted an invitation to go to my date’s apartment.  We had been on several dates by this time, and I felt like I could trust him.  We ended up making out in his room, which I really liked – but as he pressed to go further, I felt more and more uncomfortable.  Even though I specifically said the words “no” and “I don’t... Read more

2016-02-16T22:57:42-05:00

Last updated on: February 16, 2016 at 10:57 pm   By

For whatever reason, an article that was published by the Church in 2010 titled Effectiveness of Church Approach to Preventing Child Abuse reemerged on the LDS newsroom on February 1, making many believe this was a new release.  The Church is stating this was a technical glitch and not purposeful from their end.  Regardless, the reemergence of this article has caused for much needed dialogue on this topic – specifically from victims of child abuse themselves.  And many are reporting deep distress... Read more

2016-05-01T23:46:07-05:00

Last updated on: May 1, 2016 at 11:46 pm   By

My daughter is turning 12 this week.  The bishopric called to schedule her Beehive interview.  I love our bishop.  He is very humble and trustworthy.  I feel safe with my daughter around him but also don’t want her learning that she must have private interviews with men about her worthiness.  I don’t know what to do… This issue has been a growing concern for me for the past 15 years – and culminated with my own personal experience with a... Read more

2016-02-14T18:56:57-05:00

Last updated on: February 14, 2016 at 6:56 pm   By

Over the last several years I have worked with my colleague and friend, John Dehlin, to host a variety of workshops and retreats (next one taking place in April) that are purposefully developed to help those transitioning from Mormonism and their loved ones – whether they may find themselves in a mixed-faith marriage (an often difficult and painful road to navigate), parenting mixed-faith children, or just needing to find healing and forward movement individually. Faith transitions are chalked full of... Read more

2016-05-04T22:49:15-05:00

Last updated on: May 4, 2016 at 10:49 pm   By

I was recently pointed to a blog post called Satan’s Hidden Arsenal Against Women and asked my opinion about it, especially since some are planning on sharing this type of message in Relief Society lessons, Sunday School, etc.  I don’t mean to pick on this particular post or author  (she actually includes some applicable, good information).  However, I’m concerned about framing these types of issues in a way that gives Satan so much power. It is a common theme I have... Read more

2016-02-11T21:12:58-05:00

Last updated on: February 11, 2016 at 9:12 pm   By

For whatever reason, an article that was published by the Church in 2010 titled Effectiveness of Church Approach to Preventing Child Abuse reemerged on the LDS newsroom on February 1, making many believe this was a new release.  The Church is stating this was a technical glitch and not purposeful from their end.  Regardless, the reemergence of this article has caused for much needed dialogue on this topic – specifically from victims of child abuse themselves.  And many are reporting deep distress... Read more

2016-02-11T21:20:05-05:00

Last updated on: February 11, 2016 at 9:20 pm   By

For whatever reason, an article that was published by the Church in 2010 titled Effectiveness of Church Approach to Preventing Child Abuse reemerged on the LDS newsroom on February 1, making many believe this was a new release.  The Church is stating this was a technical glitch and not purposeful from their end.  Regardless, the reemergence of this article has caused for much needed dialogue on this topic – specifically from victims of child abuse themselves.  And many are reporting deep distress... Read more

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