Not a failure: “My daughter is pregnant.” Failure: “My daughter had an abortion because she knew darn well what would happen if we found out she was pregnant.” Not a failure: “My child is severely depressed.” “My child has debilitating anxiety.” “My child is suicidal.” Failure: “I have no idea how to help my child, but I’ll be damned if I let someone stranger into our personal lives. Professional help is for parents who can’t hack it, and... Read more