Seventeen Questions That Reveal Your True Catholic Identity

Catholics like me value the Church’s living Magisterium. This gift ensures that, no matter how cultures change, the Church retains the authority to address moral and doctrinal challenges. Sadly, not all Catholics recognize the value of this guidance. Some prefer ambiguity and nuance that give the illusion of freedom while avoiding firm boundaries.

Today’s debates over truth and human anthropology (especially questions about human nature) are loud, complex, and emotionally charged. With so many competing voices online and in academia, I sensed a need for clarity: not only about what the Church teaches, but also where individual Catholics stand in relation to that teaching.

To meet that need, I’ve compiled a list of yes-or-no questions. These aren’t “gotcha” questions. Each one is rooted in Catholic doctrine, natural law, and reason, and is intended to foster moral clarity.

Gender and the Body

Can a person change their biological sex?

Is intentionally altering or mutilating a healthy body to match a perceived gender morally wrong?

Is prescribing puberty blockers or cross-sex hormones to minors morally wrong?

Do you believe that surgically removing healthy breasts or genitals from minors is gravely immoral?

Is it a lie to deliberately refer to someone by a pronoun that contradicts their biological sex?

Do parents have the legal right to deny so-called “gender-affirming care” for their children without interference?

Catholic Teaching and Moral Authority

Is the Church right to teach that only biological men can be ordained to the priesthood?

Do you believe that Catholic teaching on male and female as created realities is authoritative and true?

Does public dissent from Church teaching on sexuality or gender undermine the witness of the Church?

Do Catholics have a moral duty to speak publicly when fundamental truths about the human person are denied?

Truth, Compassion, and Public Witness

Is it compassionate to affirm someone in a false belief about their identity?

Is telling someone the truth (gently but clearly) about their biological sex an act of love, even if it causes pain?

Should emotional discomfort ever outweigh biological or theological truth in moral decision-making?

Is avoiding offense more important than defending truth?

Moral Boundaries and Protection

Does the state possess a moral obligation to protect children from irreversible harm, even when parents and doctors consent to it?

Should the state prohibit by law some forms of medical “care,” even if those receiving it claim it improves their mental health?

Are there limits to parental rights when it comes to a child’s bodily integrity and moral formation?

The Catholic Answer Sheet

How did you do? Below, I provide the correct answers with supporting documentation from the Catechism of the Catholic Church, Church documents, and Scripture.

Gender and the Body

Can a person change their biological sex?

Catholic Answer: No

CCC 2333: “Everyone, man and woman, should acknowledge and accept his sexual identity.”

Is intentionally altering or mutilating a healthy body to match a perceived gender morally wrong?

Catholic Answer: Yes

CCC 2297: “Except when performed for strictly therapeutic medical reasons, directly intended amputations, mutilations, and sterilizations performed on innocent persons are against the moral law.”

Is prescribing puberty blockers or cross-sex hormones to minors morally wrong?

Catholic Answer: Yes

Male and Female He Created Them (2019), #24: The Congregation for Catholic Education warns against interventions that do not respect the integrity of the body and natural development.

Do you believe that surgically removing healthy breasts or genitals from minors is gravely immoral?

Catholic Answer: Yes

CCC 2297 and Male and Female He Created Them, #20-24 affirm that such procedures constitute unjustified mutilation.

Is it a lie to deliberately refer to someone by a pronoun that contradicts their biological sex?

Catholic Answer: Yes

CCC 2482: “A lie consists in speaking a falsehood with the intention of deceiving.”

Do parents have the legal right to deny so-called “gender-affirming care” for their children without interference?

Catholic Answer: Yes

Dignitas Infinita, #64:

In this spirit, the Church, with the present Declaration, ardently urges that respect for the dignity of the human person beyond all circumstances be placed at the center of the commitment to the common good and at the center of every legal system. Indeed, respect for the dignity of each person is the indispensable basis for the existence of any society that claims to be founded on just law and not on the force of power. Acknowledging human dignity forms the basis for upholding fundamental human rights, which precede and ground all civic coexistence.

Catholic Teaching and Moral Authority

Is the Church right to teach that only biological men can be ordained to the priesthood?

Catholic Answer: Yes

Ordinatio Sacerdotalis (1994): “The Church has no authority whatsoever to confer priestly ordination on women.”

Do you believe that Catholic teaching on male and female as created realities is authoritative and true?

Catholic Answer: Yes

Genesis 1:27; CCC 369-373 affirms the duality and complementarity of male and female as willed by God.

Does public dissent from Church teaching on sexuality or gender undermine the witness of the Church?

Catholic Answer: Yes

CCC 2039: “Personal conscience and reason should not be set in opposition to the moral law or the Magisterium of the Church.”

Do Catholics have a moral duty to speak publicly when fundamental truths about the human person are denied?

Catholic Answer: Yes

CCC 1915: “As far as possible citizens should take an active part in public life.”

Truth, Compassion, and Public Witness

Is it compassionate to affirm someone in a false belief about their identity?

Catholic Answer: No

CCC 2468: “Truth as uprightness in human action and speech is called truthfulness, sincerity, or candor. Truth or truthfulness is the virtue which consists in showing oneself true in deeds and truthful in words…”

Is telling someone the truth (gently but clearly) about their biological sex an act of love, even if it causes pain?

Catholic Answer: Yes

Ephesians 4:15: “Rather, speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in every way into him who is the head, into Christ.”

Should emotional discomfort ever outweigh biological or theological truth in moral decision-making?

Catholic Answer: No

CCC 1783-1785: Conscience must be informed and moral judgments must be based on truth, not feelings.

Is avoiding offense more important than defending truth?

Catholic Answer: No

Galatians 1:10: “For am I now seeking the approval of man, or of God? Or am I trying to please man? If I were still trying to please man, I would not be a servant of Christ.”

Moral Boundaries and Protection

Does the state possess a moral obligation to protect children from irreversible harm, even when parents and doctors consent to it?

Catholic Answer: Yes

CCC 2211: The state has the duty to protect children’s rights and ensure the moral environment necessary for their development.

Should the state prohibit by law some forms of medical “care,” even if those receiving it claim it improves their mental health?

Catholic Answer: Yes

CCC 2297: Moral law prohibits mutilation even when it is culturally or medically accepted.

Are there limits to parental rights when it comes to a child’s bodily integrity and moral formation?

Catholic Answer: Yes

CCC 2229, 2288-2291: Parents act as stewards of their children, not owners. Bodily integrity and moral truth remain objective goods beyond private consent.

Final Thoughts…

I hope these questions and answers offer much-needed clarity. To Catholics who refuse to answer, or who disagree with the Church’s response, I ask: why?

Why stand in opposition to the Church founded by Christ and guided by the Holy Spirit? Do you believe yourself better equipped than the Magisterium to speak on today’s most pressing moral issues? Or are you following a different spirit (the zeitgeist) that trades truth for autonomy and demands allegiance in return?

It’s worth reflecting on. Because silence, evasion, or vague dissent isn’t pastoral, it’s a choice with eternal consequences.