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The Sacred Search

What If It's Not About Who You Marry, But Why?

by Gary Thomas

Patheos Book Club features "The Sacred Search: What If It's Not About Who You Marry, But Why?" by Gary Thomas, a look at building relationships around a shared spiritual mission. | read more»

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About the Book & Author

What if being "in love" isn't a good enough reason to get married? Read more about the new relationship book by best-selling author Gary Thomas. | read more »

Excerpts from The Sacred Search

"The reward for making a wise marital choice is so tremendous that I don't want you to miss it." Read selected excerpts from The Sacred Search. | read more »

Praise for The Sacred Search

Read what Focus on the Family's Jim Daly, Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott and others are saying about Gary Thomas' new book on choosing a life partner. | read more »

Finding True Love: A Q&A with Gary Thomas

"If you base your marriage on spiritual purpose, I believe you'll be both happier and more fulfilled at the end of your life, rather than taking the route so many do: basing their decision on things that fade, and then regretting that decision for decades." | read more »

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Visit Gary Thomas' website for more books, videos, seminars and free resources. | read more »

The Sacred Search Couple's Guide

In this companion resource to The Sacred Search , Gary Thomas helps dating and engaged couples work through the critical issues and questions they must address before they decide to marry. | read more »
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