“None of Us Are Getting Out of This Alive”: How & Why to Have End-of-Life Conversations

Part of what it means to be human is to be aware of our mortality: to wrestle with the  existential reality of “being alive and having to die.” As the saying goes, “Ultimately, none of us are getting out of this alive.” Realizing our finitude can be terrifying, but it can also be motivating. As Thoreau wrote in Walden: “I wished to live deliberately…and not, when I came to die, discover that I had not lived…. I wanted to live deep and suck out all the marrow of life.” The temptation can be to r … [Read more...]

Lessons from “Les Mis” in the Age of Trump

Les Misérables premiered on Broadway in 1987, after earlier versions in France and London. I first encountered Les Mis in the early ‘90s. My church youth group took at trip to New York City that included seeing Les Mis. I had never paid attention to the musical before—other than seeing the ubiquitous t-shirts with the image of Cosette on the front. But after seeing the musical live in New York City, suddenly all of my peers were listening not only to the 1987 Original Broadway Cast recording, but … [Read more...]

Top 5 Words for Understanding Trump

1. Demagogue - "a political leader who seeks support by appealing to popular desires and prejudices rather than by using rational argument."2. Gaslight - "manipulate (someone) by psychological means into questioning their own sanity."3. Panjandrum - "a person who has or claims to have a great deal of authority or influence."4. Projection - "a theory in psychology in which humans defend themselves against their own unconscious impulses or qualities (both positive and negative) by … [Read more...]

Understanding Trump Supporters: Reactions to the End of White Christian America

In the 1976 film, Network, there’s a famous scene in which a  network anchor looks into the camera and tells the viewers at home:I want you to get up now. I want all of you to get up out of your chairs. I want you to get up right now and go to the window. Open it, and stick your head out, and yell, “I'M AS MAD AS HELL, AND I'M NOT GOING TO TAKE THIS ANYMORE!” Things have got to change. But first, you've gotta get mad!…. Then we'll figure out what to do.… But first get up out of your chairs, … [Read more...]

What Would It Mean To Respect the Dignity of Every Person—Without Exception?

I recently finished reading a provocative new book by Nathan Walker titled Cultivating Empathy: The Worth and Dignity of Every Person — Without Exception. Nate invites us to experiment with our moral imagination: “the ability to anticipate or project oneself into the middle of a moral dilemma or conflict and understand all the points of view.” Note that, “Understanding does not necessarily mean agreement” (xvii-xviii).Consider the experience of Ruby Bridges (1954-). In 1960, when she was six- … [Read more...]

Challenging Trump’s Islamophobia: Demagoguery & Democracy

The Huffington Post adds the following Editor’s note to every article they publish about Donald Trump: "Donald Trump regularly incites political violence and is a serial liar, rampant xenophobe, racist, misogynist and birther who has repeatedly pledged to ban all Muslims — 1.6 billion members of an entire religion — from entering the U.S." When I encounter this line of fear-mongering, I am both angered and saddened that the normal everyday lives of most of the world’s 1.6 billion Muslims too ofte … [Read more...]