“Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.” –Mark 12:30, Deuteronomy 6:5
Most of the churches I’ve attended over the last four decades have put the accent on different parts of this command. Some put the emphasis on strength, service, community action and outreach. Others have put the emphasis on the soul – personal piety for believers and evangelism of not-yet-believers were the primary focus of these congregations. Other congregations focused on the stirring the heart to an emotional connection with God through expressive Charismatic worship and practice.
I haven’t been to many churches where loving God with one’s mind has been a primary value, particularly among women. More often than not, I’ve often heard concern in most of the churches I’ve attended against getting “too heady”. This drove underground anyone (except the pastor, maybe) who connects with God through academic learning and study. It was OK to dig in to a Kay Arthur or Beth Moore study, but that was the extent of it for women in the churches my husband and I have attended.
When we moved to Barrington a year and a half ago, I reconnected with a friend I’d met at a writer’s group a couple of years prior. Carol, a Trinity International University grad, told me that she was part of a planning team who was working on putting together a conference for women at her alma mater. The team putting the event together hoped to offer a place for women to gather in order to hear messages from respected theologians and practioners, then offer them space to engage the material with others. It was an attempt to offer an event that shifted the emphasis in women’s ministry by encouraging women to love God with their minds, then to act on that love with their heart, soul and strength. She asked me if I might be interested in helping in some way. I brought my marketing experience and my knowledge of the school’s communications culture to the table and helped as the team put together their first conference last February.
Though the event was called a Women’s Theology Conference, it might just as well have been called “A Gathering Of Thinking Women”. Women often have only had two basic corporate vehicle by which they could learn in community with other women: local church-based Bible study groups or big parachurch conference events where the focus is on motivational speech and testimonies. The team from Trinity’s Society of Women hoped to take a step in a third direction with an event that formed a footbridge between the seminary classroom and the lives of thinking women in local congregations who wished for a place to engage their mind and exercise their voice in conversation with others.
I left yesterday’s event grateful that there is no single prescription given us for how to learn to love God heart, soul, mind, and strength beyond the fact that his commands should shape our days and fill our thoughts. Through the years, I have been spurred to love God more faithfully in the company of other women by participating in silent retreats, through attending a more mainstream women’s Bible study, through shared reading and discussion, through spiritual conversation, through prayer, through working together, weeping together, and even shopping together.
I am grateful that I can now add “thinking theologically together with other women” to the list through my experience the last two years at the conferences sponsored by the Trinity Society of Women. Though I am now in a seminary classroom, there is something unique and wonderful about being with others, without the pressure of papers and grades, to have the space to think, and be challenged to let those thoughts form a prayer made out of my life that will help me honor the One whose thoughts are far above my own.