If the particulars of our lives were nothing more than a series of choices that arose out of circumstances orchestrated by God — if the choices made were nothing more than a direct “yes” or “no” to the work of God in our lives — then the task of discernment would not be nearly as difficult.
The choices might not necessarily be easy. We might be challenged to let go of vain obsessions. We might be challenged to make courageous decisions. We might be called upon to sacrifice.
But the moral and spiritual clarity of those choices would be inescapable.
In fact, life is almost never “simple” in that way.
The choices we face are not cleanly delineated. The results are almost always mixed. And, more often than not, the choices we are forced to make are necessitated by circumstances arising out of chance, nonsense, error and cruelty.
Discerning the will of God is, then, by definition a conditioned enterprise. It is not something done in a vacuum, where the choices are one dimensional, the consequences unmixed, and the decisions a clean, obvious “yes,” or a “no” to God.
Recognizing that this is the case won’t save us from struggle. But it will keep us from waiting for conditions to change.
What can be “simple” is our determination to draw closer to God and others in love.
If you are waiting for things to get easier, forget about it. If you are waiting for circumstances to become simple, you will be waiting for a long time.
The only simplicity on offer is the simplicity of intention.