Fly Fishing and the Spiritual Life

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Last week I learned to fly fish on Hermosa Creek in southwest Colorado and the experience has me thinking about the lessons of fly fishing that also apply to the spiritual life.  Here is some of what I’ve learned.  I’ll let you make your own inferences.Lines get tangled.Patience often provides enough space and focus to untangle them.But sometimes an intervention is needed.The best results are often found in deep water.It’s fun to catch.  It can be even more fun to release. … [Read more...]

eternitatem cogita

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I am blessed with a handful of friends who make me think.  One of them is John Ockels.  John thinks deeply about his faith.  Over lunch the other day, he pointed out that thinking about life as eternal had changed the way he lives.“You know, he observed, if you think that this life is all there is, it doesn’t matter how sweet natured and good you happen to be, the notion that it will all be over in 80 years or so changes the way that you live.  And most of us --- including Christians --- real … [Read more...]

Anonymity and Healing

Writing for Real Clear Religion, author Mark Judge observes:Somebody needs to stage an intervention on Bob Beckel. The man needs to stop taking about being a drunk. Beckel is a Democratic operative who now co-stars on The Five, the popular Fox television show. The Five has five stars -- Beckel, Greg Gutfeld, Dana Perino, Kimberly Guilfoyle, and Eric Bolling. The show has received good reviews -- even from the New York Times -- and it's not hard to see why. It has an easy flow, the hosts are … [Read more...]

Second Opinions and the Will of God

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My brother is a surgeon and he understands the desire for second opinions.  When a procedure is complicated or the implications are far-reaching, it can be important to get another point of view.  If the second opinion confirms the first one you received, it’s also reassuring.  But when patients look for a third, fourth, or fifth opinion, he has also learned that his patients are probably looking for the opinion they want, not the opinion they need --- or they don’t want to make a decision at all … [Read more...]

The Happiness Index

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In a recent article in The Wall Street Journal James Brovard reported:In recent years, numerous experts have declaimed that the gross domestic product is a flawed measure of whether citizens are truly thriving. President Obama's designee for World Bank president, Jim Yong Kim, for example, warned that "the quest for growth in GDP and corporate profits has in fact worsened the lives of millions of women and men."  In light of this growing concern, the Obama administration is financing … [Read more...]

False Selves

In 1960 D. W. Winnicott published what appeared to be an inconsequential article describing “the false self.”  Winnicott argued that, in self-defense, we all build versions of ourselves.  Those “false selves” are designed to offer a version of ourselves to the world that keep us from being hurt and promote public civility, ordering our impulses and the ways in which we act on them.  Winnicott argued that in those who are emotionally troubled, the false self looms so large that the “true self” is … [Read more...]

Restoring the Wounded

An ancient story from the Talmud offers an answer to the question, “Where will I find the Messiah?” A Rabbi asked Elijah, “When will the Messiah come?”Elijah replied, “Go and ask him yourself.”“Where is he?”“Sitting at the gates of the city.”“How shall I know him?”“He is sitting among the poor covered with wounds.  The others unbind all their wounds at the same time and then bind them up again.  But he unbinds one at a time and binds it up again, saying to himself, “Perhaps I … [Read more...]

Just Forgive?

I have been in more than one setting recently in which people have urged one another “to just forgive.”  The incongruity of the pain people have described is jarring when compared with the easy, definitive guidance that others have offered that advice.  Running over the questions of how fresh the wounding might be or how long the healing might take, they are like a Nike commercial, “Just do it.”Forgiveness is the point of departure, the first step in our own reconciliation with God.  In God’s … [Read more...]


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