What Every WEARY MOM Really Needs to Hear…instead of “You Look Tired”

7. “The dishes can wait.” (Moms need permission to let some things go for a time. Especially during the holidays or busy seasons. Be that person.)

8. “Do you want to grab lunch sometime?” (Show her you are interested in her and spending realtime together.)

9. “I really like your shirt, shoes, earrings, etc.” (Find something to compliment authentically so she knows you SEE her.)

10. “You are doing a great job.” (We all doubt this. You can’t tell us this enough. So repeat it, often.)

Proverbs 18:21 says,

“Words have power in matters of life and death, and those who love them will savor their fruit.”

Words spoken with grace can breathe life. The next time you see a weary mom who looks it in every way, speak life and watch her shoulders lift a little and her eyes brighten. And if that weary mom happens to be me start with #2. Because, coffee is one of my love languages.

XO,

Stacey

P.S. Don’t get me started on what NOT to say to girl mom. Maybe we can talk about that later!

About the Author: Stacey Thacker is a wife and the mother of four girls. Creator of the popular blog Mothers of Daughters, she is a writer and speaker who loves God’s Word. Her passion is to connect with women and encourage them in their walks with God. Her books include Hope for the Weary Mom, the Hope for the Weary Mom Devotional, and Fresh Out of Amazing. You can find her blogging at StaceyThacker.com and hanging out on Instagram and Twitter @staceythacker usually with a cup of coffee in her hand.