
2. Counselors are trained professional who can bring out underlying issues that we can’t on our own.
Not only are counselors trained to approach the counseling process from a point of neutrality, they are also equipped to be acutely aware of any underlying problems that might exist between a couple. They can also uncover any personal issues that are going on with one spouse. You both may decide to attend counseling because you are fighting and unable to communicate in a healthy way at this time. If so, the counselor will offer some practical tips to help you both communicate better, AND he/she will get to the root of what is causing the breakdown in communication. And, this is an essential part to lasting, healing changes in your marriage.
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