3 Signs that Your Marriage is Stuck on AUTO-PILOT, and How to Break this Negative Cycle

My husband and I love going on road trips, and we really love putting our awesome minivan on “cruise control.” It’s nice because it regulates the speed (which keeps us from speeding).  I like that I don’t have to be keenly aware of the speed as much, so I can focus on other things…like eating, talking, etc.  I mean, what’s not to love, right?  Cruise control or “auto-pilot” are great tools when it comes to driving a vehicle–and that’s exactly what it’s meant for.  Yet, many of us try to do the same thing with our marriage.  But, it will cause our relationship to crash every time.  Here are some reasons why…