4 Common Excuses Married Couples Give for Their Boring Sex Life (and How to Make it Better)

1.  “I don’t have a strong desire for sex very often–if ever–anymore.”

This is a common statement, however most couples fail to find out the reason WHY a spouse is almost never in the mood.  It could be a medical issue or an emotional/mental one.  No matter the source, there are things couples can do to find out the root of the lack of desire.  They can go to their doctor and have some tests done to see if their hormone levels are off, and if they are, there are a lot of different ways that this imbalance can be treated.  If it’s not a medical issue, a couple might consider going to a Christian counselor to see if the lack of desire is due to a past hurt or mental hangup.  Counselors are trained to identify the root causes of our struggles, and they can help us to form a healthier perspective of ourselves and our marriage when it comes to sex.  If you or your spouse seem to almost never be in the mood for sex, consider seeing your doctor or local Christian counselor right away.