
3. Go see a Christian counselor both individually and together.
This is a game-changer, yet many couples in crisis are apprehensive about it. But, a Christian counselor provides a couple with professional insight into what the underlying issues are in their relationship, and he/she also offers practical steps the couple can take to rebuild trust and heal their marriage.
The couple I spoke about at the beginning of this article stated that counseling made a huge impact in their relationship. Though they really didn’t have the extra money in their budget, they made it work and faithfully saw a counselor once a week for several years. They continue to see their counselor once a month just to make sure they are moving in the right direction and staying completely honest with one another.